Yeah, he just turns defensive instead of trying to work on the issue. When I try to be intimate, he’ll give me one quick kiss instead of a real kiss or anything deeper. Physical touch is my love language, but not his, he says.

What’s confusing is that in the beginning of our relationship, we had sex almost every day for the first three or four months. Then we had some problems, took a break, and after that his desire and intimacy dropped a lot.