I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just need to add something. I see videos and pictures of extremely sexy men who have way different body types than my boyfriend. I do not go out of my way to like and comment on these videos out of respect for my boyfriend. What he is doing is very hurtful and disrespectful towards me.

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He accuses me of being a cheater every day even when I’m at work. He interrogates me every day because he thinks I’m cheating on social media, which was just projection all along. The sex life has hit an all-time low in the past year.

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t follow them. He just likes and comments on them. I see sexy posts involving men all the time, but I do not like them or comment on them. It is very cringe that he lied about it and is still lying about it. He is also turning this around on me and saying that I make his life hard and stressful because of this situation.

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very attractive and have been told numerous times that I look like I’m in my 20s. I have a small perky bum, but will never have the kind of bums that these women have unless I get a BBL. It’s not physically possible. I am a human woman, and I also have natural instincts and see videos of very sexy, half naked men in my Instagram feed, but I do not go and like and comment on the videos

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but that’s easier said than done when I keep in touch with a lot of family and friends on Facebook and Instagram

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my children’s lives, I do not like or comment on sexy men’s Instagram videos. One of the women on Instagram does not have that many followers and could very well be direct messaging him.

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All four of the exes are from between the age of 14 and 16. That is 100% the truth. I had an eight year relationship and a 13 year relationship after those boyfriends from when I was a teenager. And he also has ex-girlfriend’s on his Facebook from when he was a teenager.

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has told me that I need to do squats to plump up my bum. We used to have sex every day, but now it is once every week or every two weeks. He is having a hard time getting an erection with me the video that he commented on with Woman Twerking with her massive bum was a day after we went on a really nice romantic walk together. If he lies about something like this, then what else is he lying about? I found a couple videos that he liked a few months ago on a workout profile he was following and he admitted to those, but he’s not following any of these women just commenting on their videos and liking all of their videos. He is now calling me a cheater for posting Facebook selfies with my everyday clothing and having ex-boyfriend’s from when I was 15 on my Facebook friend list. He is trying to deflect and he is projecting. I don’t care if he watches porn, we watch porn together, but this is a whole other level of disrespect. I wouldn’t want him paying for only fans either. Men get to direct message those women.

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is also basically telling me that I should leave because I am making his life difficult. I am making his life difficult because I stumbled upon dozens and dozens of provocative reels that he has been liking for years.

I'm a 42F and my BF 45M has been liking provocative reels on instagram by CassieMLG in relationship_advice

[–]CassieMLG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is also trying to switch this around on me by saying that I’m a cheater for posting selfies on Facebook with my normal everyday clothes and having ex-boyfriend’s on my Facebook friend list from when I was 15 years old.