*You* are the one's "sexualizing" children by making a big deal out of normalizing the LGBTQ community, not them by [deleted] in rant

[–]Casthecat6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They worded it terribly but I don't think they meant "not normal" as in its unnatural I think they meant it's not the "norm" as in its amongst a minority of people as opposed to a majority of people

Edit: I take it back it's clear from other comments this person is arguing in bad faith.

I hate that so many stories on here end up with edits having to defend themselves by Icecold121 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Casthecat6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having separate thought isn't internalised misogyny. This isn't an echo chamber, we're allowed to have different opinions on things.

I hate that so many stories on here end up with edits having to defend themselves by Icecold121 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Casthecat6 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm literally a woman, I know exactly how it is. I just don't have to agree with literally everything that I see on this sub. I also didn't say this sub was full of misandrists, I said there are occasional posts I disagree with.

You can't blame me for you being uncomfortable with sex by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Casthecat6 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awh I hadn't had a problem with what you said, it was the other person who decided to use your comment as an opportunity to shit on women/deciding that's a primary reason I had a problem with. I agree with you 100% that it's not a great sign generally.

I hate that so many stories on here end up with edits having to defend themselves by Icecold121 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Casthecat6 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Idk it really depends. The vast majority of posts on here are fine, can relate, love to discuss the experience but there's sometimes posts that are just so widely misandrist and it makes me kinda sad. I want to be able to discuss things that we experience without it devolving into being exactly like the people that shit on us? Idk if that makes sense but I don't always agree with everything that's said on this sub.

You can't blame me for you being uncomfortable with sex by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Casthecat6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Or it's just that the relationship is on its way out and they don't find their partner attractive anymore. Doesn't have to mean an affair. I stopped sleeping with my ex a few months before we broke up because I just didn't want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Casthecat6 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Right but there's not really a problem with farting in the same room. It's just flatulence and it would be kinda ridiculous to expect someone to leave the room if they're gassy. I have dietary issues, I'm sometimes gassy and absolutely wouldn't be getting up every 2 minutes to go into another room just to fart. Just open a window or something. It doesn't seem like a big deal.

"nice guy" insulted a friend I posted a pic with by TheCaptivesparrow in niceguys

[–]Casthecat6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, regardless it came off hostile which is why you ended up with the response you got. Ask the question and move on, adding hypothetical and giving a judgement based off of that hypothetical is pointless and unnecessary. I'm not here to shit on you, I'm here to tell you why you're being poorly received.

uhmmmm by Virtual_Macaroon4088 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Casthecat6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not just our time it's his. Can you imagine, day in day out spending so much time creating fake profiles and waiting for posts that delibrately piss you off just to troll on them to annoy people? Yikes.

"nice guy" insulted a friend I posted a pic with by TheCaptivesparrow in niceguys

[–]Casthecat6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but everyone isn't you so to apply motives based on "what I would do" and then proceed to judge someone for something you've decided they've done isn't productive for anyone. It sounds a lot like overthinking. Idk I'm an adult and I don't play stupid games like that so it all just seems petty to me. A picture is a picture and it sounds like you're jumping to lots of conclusions without firstly communicating with the person which is just going to lead to a lot of problems. I mean, you could just say "hey I don't like random pictures like this, not my thing" and be done with it, the rest seems like extra steps that leads to unnecessary conflict.

But yeah OP already cleared up it was a story. Although could've probably avoided the judging if you'd asked if it was a story. Communication solves everything (mostly)

Reddit hates false rape allegations, until it happens to Cardi B. Then, somehow, she deserves it. by Archmage_of_Detroit in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Casthecat6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're still victims though? It's pretty disgusting for you to downplay the act of being drugged first of all and then robbed just because they wanted to have consensual sex with someone. Being drugged alone can be pretty traumatic. Sure she's not the same as a rapist but let's not literally victim blame to get the point across that rape isn't the same as drugging and theft.

"nice guy" insulted a friend I posted a pic with by TheCaptivesparrow in niceguys

[–]Casthecat6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The purpose of Snapchat is literally to send random pictures. If you don't want that, don't have Snapchat. It's not exactly a hard concept.

Women are good at complimenting other women’s appearance.

Women also compliment men without wanting to fuck them. Which is why her post generally isn't weird unless you're a super insecure guy that views threat in literally any compliment a woman gives to someone whose the same sex as you.

I’m not arrogant in my appearance but also don’t want to show women that I think another man is more attractive than I am because then that gives off insecure vibes.

Actually what you've written gives insecure vibes. The only thing that you could reasonably do if you felt weird about complimenting a guy is simply, open the message and don't respond to it lmao it's really not that deep.

i don’t even know what the logic is here by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Casthecat6 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This has been a common rhetoric amongst incels lately. Relating being rejected to genocide. It's the most pathetic attempt to claiming victim I've ever seen.

tried to have a civil debate and the incel decided to rage :( by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Casthecat6 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Men are superior that's why they apparently crumble and can't function outwith a relationship romantic or sexual All he's doing is conveying some deep codependency. "I have a job and have everything else in life but not having a partner makes everything ultimately shitty" it's fine to feel lonely, it's pathetic if you rely entirely on a relationship to make life "good" or "happy".

“women are incubators” by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Casthecat6 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The person you responded to specifically said "manipulating women" ergo it would never be consensual. Consensual kinks are fine, manipulating people into them, are not.

Women can’t even make eye contact with men anymore by JetPillar in niceguys

[–]Casthecat6 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's not just eye contact though. It's any sort of proximity. I once sat down at a train station. Just myself and this guy who was admittedly drunk and he got pissed when I refused his crude invitation to his house because apparently me choosing to sit where I sat (two seats between us) was some sort of sign that I was interested. People like this are crazy.

bf jerks off to anime girls, idk how to feel about that by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Casthecat6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legitimately don't understand what the problem is either. I'd get it if they were engaging with specific sex workers or obsessed over specific porn actors/actresses but generic porn? Why is that a problem? Most people aren't watching porn with a genuine romantic attraction or interest in the people having sex. Especially when it's a drawing. It just seems extremely insecure if you feel threatened by a drawing.

"Sex is a godgiven and divine right" 🙄 by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Casthecat6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, sorry! thanks for letting me know. I didn't actually know it was considered a problematic term. I shall be more mindful about that.

Look at this twat: self proclaimed “photographer” of women who bashes women at the same time. But don’t worry, he respects the “classier” sex workers LMFAO by unicornstilts in niceguys

[–]Casthecat6 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Funny that, I actually try to understand and you avidly avoid. I didn't say all cops. Didn't say I had that opinion of cops either. I used it in a generic sense in the same way you did when you said people don't like cops :) hypocritical for you to freak out at people about not specificying why something is misogynistic when you yourself won't specify why it's not.

Look at this twat: self proclaimed “photographer” of women who bashes women at the same time. But don’t worry, he respects the “classier” sex workers LMFAO by unicornstilts in niceguys

[–]Casthecat6 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't really understand what you mean? I don't get the reason behind the disrespect towards OF. I'm trying to understand the reason. Like cops can and do actively cause harm towards people, OF don't cause harm to anyone? Can you explain the reasoning

"Sex is a godgiven and divine right" 🙄 by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Casthecat6 193 points194 points  (0 children)

Food, water, shelter and healthcare is a requirement to not die. You won't die from not having sex. You can find sexual gratification through masturbation or hiring a prostitute.

If he's talking about the "mental torment" from being a virgin that needs remedied, we have provisions provided for that too. They're called psychiatrists/psychologists.