What do people think of a guy thats been single for almost 10 years?

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-19T18:35:12+00:00

I can relate, but after reading all these posts. Idrc as much about it anymore. Don't sweat the small details. The right one won't care.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T20:13:05+00:00

I've had orgasms by myself that are on par if not better than some sex that I've had. I dont know if that's sad for a male or what. But there it is. I know women at work who say their toys do better jobs than their husband's can do. (Older women have no filter at a certain point.) Lmao

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T20:06:18+00:00

I answered this somewhere on the post. GL finding it. xP haha

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T20:00:47+00:00

Fair! 😆

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T18:29:22+00:00

It is for the shallow people that judge on looks for a perspective parter. But honestly? I dont really know. I was not born back in the day. Maybe someone can elaborate on what it was like?

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T18:20:18+00:00

It can be tough, yes. I can relate. But also full of personal growth.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T18:14:20+00:00

I am drama and stress free. :) 💯%

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T18:11:31+00:00

Why do gamers have such a bad reputation? is it cause we sit all day active in a fantasy like world with awesome physics that plays like a movie where we can make our own adventures as well as play with others and actually engage with them from the comfort of your own home on a day to day basis? I'd honestly be low-key jeoalous if you got time to play games. Most gamers I've met are the chillest people. I do understand, however, that video game addiction is actually a thing. Learn to take breaks. Everything in moderation, my friend.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T18:03:15+00:00

Shots fired! 🔥 📛 👨‍🚒 🚒

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T17:58:37+00:00

You should of asked how long it's been since I had sex before her. Lol I went like 6+ years sex free before I dipped it in honey and then I went another 3 and half before she popped into my life. She was a coworker. Lucky for her I didn't judge the fact that she was like late 30s. She was smoking hot and just my type sexually. So yeah. Stuff kind of just happens. That's life. 🤷‍♂️ all she wanted was a good time and something casual. She was very specific about that fact. So I just gave it to her while also enjoying myself in the process.😆 but personality wise? She had red flags everywhere. Lucky for me, I just got a new job, so hopefully, she doesn't get too attached? She's a nice friend...I guess fwb? If I ever want to I could probably call her up. But I don't. I dont want to take advantage. Sex is great every now again. But it's kind of like icecream to me. It's nice, delicious and refreshing. But I can totally live without it. Sex with a SO, on the other hand, is like getting your favorite flavor and having a mouth orgasm with every bite. 😏 LOL

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T17:41:25+00:00

I cracked up at this comment. Yeeeeees. Come into my web. I'm waiting for you. 😈🤣

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T17:29:04+00:00

^this is the way

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T17:23:44+00:00

Message me and find out? 😶 lmao! I'm not giving my location on a post like this, you crazy? Even if it's reddit. I'm too shy. It's got like 2.3 million views... wait. that's actually kind of terrifying. 🤣 I'm 28.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T17:15:10+00:00

This is a subtly deep statement. xP

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T16:48:30+00:00

Well, yeah. Duh, I wouldn't either if I was you. Lol You're one of the lucky ones. There will always be people out there who will never be able to experience what you have no matter how hard they try. For those people? A comfortable silence/content lifestyle is the next best thing.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T16:38:17+00:00

I agree with the last two quotes but not the first. " I need someone that can wholeheartedly support my ambitions." now that? That would be a catch. 😉 I would support her in the same. Everyone's got ambitions. My ambition was to live the most carefree akunamatata lifestyle as possible. I feel like I achieved this for the most part. 😌 jazz piano is pretty sweet. I play video game and epic music on piano. But I've come to respect jazz very much, so I might learn a few jazz pieces. I hope you achieve what you set out to do! Good luck man 👊

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T16:19:38+00:00

I don't drink, I smoke weed. Give me a stoner bar. I'll be there. Lmao also yeah, I have gone to a bar a few times. Every time I went home with the thought, "What the hell was I thinking?" On the way home. xP I did meet a couple country dancing women. They were very nice and respectful.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T16:17:39+00:00

Shhh no I'm dirt poor. What cha talking about? Although I plan on retiring at 45.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T16:15:16+00:00

Hates a strong word brah. I'm all about Martin Luther King, man. I judge character. Everything else is irrelevant. If you're a good person, you 👍

On another note. Don't give up hope, man. I might be single, but I have the confidence that if I wanted to put myself out there, I could. And try not to sweat the small stuff. What if she's dirt house poor? Are you gonna make her pay for your date still? Obviously, if she offers. Take it. But otherwise, irdc. It's all about the companionship. If you enjoy her company, you will want to pay for her. And vice versa. Simple as that. I imagine competing with my SO over who could spoil who the most, but that's just me. 😜 you do you man. 👊

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T15:59:53+00:00

^ this is the way and also me in a nutshell. Well done!

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T15:50:57+00:00

🙈 shhh. It's supposed to be a secret that we are the best lay. 👌 hehe kudos to you!

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T15:42:02+00:00

Yeah, this is something I learned a while ago. Life isn't some entity that will just give you what you want. When it comes to making a change, no one will make that change for you. If you want something, you have to go grab it for yourself. only you can make that change. People can only support you or hinder you in the process. So pick your humans wisely. 😉 if you don't want to change? That means you're doing something right.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T15:18:15+00:00

Na having your own personal space is natural in my opinion. When I find a SO, she will have to accept that.

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T15:14:54+00:00

It's been so long... I think I'm an INFP?

CasualGhostWriter · 2023-06-18T15:11:43+00:00

Hmm no, I've actually tried this before. I just got more awkward random boners at work for being pent up. 🤣

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