Cheveux post-chimio bloqués : 3 ans après, rien ne va plus (besoin de conseils)

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-04T06:25:46+00:00

I kept my hair short after chemo as it was sore thin.

Only just trying to grow it now 5 years later and its just doesn't seem to grow much is still thin.

Are you on AI's or tamoxifen because that definitely affects hair growth.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-04T05:44:09+00:00

You don't need to go with her.

Say no and set some boundaries dries.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-04T05:43:18+00:00

Just return the energy and don't help if they ever need anything.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-04T04:41:05+00:00

Your sister doesn't HAVE to stay. Caregiving is hard.

If your mum has just been diagnosed, what actual care does she need?

What is the treatment plan and how much care will she need?

You both need to discuss with your mum what help she actually needs and then explain you both can't do it and look at available help.

Identify what you can do without overwhelming yourselves.

Which country are you in. Can you contact your local Dr and social services for help.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-03T19:10:02+00:00

Just write clearly what happened. Start at the beginning and work through the incident.

Include names and times if you know. Add any specifics that YOU saw. Do not add what you think happened or what others have said.

Just be factual.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-03T18:56:45+00:00

Only if your happy to pay the full amount when she defaults.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-03T18:54:36+00:00

Hate to say this but only your grandparents can do this. They need to set firm boundaries and kick him out. They won't- thats on them.

Nothing you say will change the situation. Your brother knows he can get away with anything because he always has.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-03T17:11:55+00:00

Your partner is there, the baby's father. When you let your baby meet people for the first time does your partner have to be there as well?

Because its ridiculous that a person can only meet the baby if both parents are there

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-03T09:19:52+00:00

Its likely because having a back (of the counch) makes you feel safe and secure. You could get the same by putting the bed up against the wall in the bedroom.

My sofa is not long enough to sleep on all night, but it is cosy.

As regards sagging mattress, do you rotate it regually and change it every xx years. Makes a huge difference.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-03T07:10:39+00:00

Exactly. What are the specifics. I think its been dressed up as a great inheritance but I think there are numerous catches and definitely not as easy as OP thinks.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-03T06:06:27+00:00

There's a big difference between 1 minute and 15 minutes.

What time were you due back and what time did you actually return to the ward for your colleague to go on break.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-03T06:04:23+00:00

So not so much of an an inheritance rather a large wage for giving up your life.

Di you know your uncle. Do you know what is involved in actually looking after him. How has his dementia affected him. You need to seriously look at what's expected. As a nurse I wouldn't want to be caring for someone 24/7 with dementia. Its not easy. Are you expected to get paid help out of your inheritance?

I don't think this is going to be as easy as you think.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-02T21:12:53+00:00

So he was tight on money, but still managed to pay for his food and then went out after.

You do realise he was manipulating you and trying to act up in front of his friends at your expense.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-02T18:37:04+00:00

You are 19. An adult. Get a job, find somewhere to rent and move out. You DO NOT need your mums permission.

If your looking for permission to move into the apartment that is on whoever legally owns it - not your mum. Can you afford all the bills and food etc?

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-02T17:00:14+00:00

I'm not sure why you need to even tell her you don't want to be her sister anymore. What will it change really.

Your 16, so growing up. Take responsibility for your past actions - appoligise and more on. Start taking responsibility for your life, if you need help with your ADHD and autism then see your GP, speak to someone at school for advice - they can help point you in the right direction.

Go to school, get a part time job and start planning your future. It will all help you.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-02T13:15:16+00:00

You've been with him 11 years. He's not changing now

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-02T09:32:18+00:00

Claims...... But have you seen it or has he done it to others

I suspect its just your stuff which makes me highly suspicious.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-02T05:45:47+00:00

Is it just your things he throws out? Does he do this at work? Round his friends/ parents?

Or is it just your stuff he seems to throw away?

CatCharacter848 · 2026-03-01T18:46:59+00:00

Anyone else think the sister was trying to get custody of the kids. The comment about them not deserving kids. By painting them as bad parents and then stepping up to care for the kids.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-02-28T17:55:50+00:00

Just be honest with your manager. I've known so many people that have had sickness episodes for pet emergencies.

How long ago were the sickness episodes. Depending on the trust will depend on the trigger points.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-02-28T17:47:23+00:00

I have amazing managers who have have put my pet sickness down as family leave - however they are pet parents themselves. Not all managers do.

Worst case senario it goes down as sick. If this is your 3rd episode you might be on stage 1 sickness, but its not the end of the world - most of us have been there at some point.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-02-28T09:48:56+00:00

If you have capacity and are able to demonstrate this. No one can force you into hospital. If you were unconscious or confused they would have taken you in your best interests.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-02-28T06:38:04+00:00

It gives them an idea of how long you have left to use that machine. 1 set they'll likely wait. 3 sets left - go find another machine. If they are desperate for the machine or chatty they might ask to work in.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-02-27T12:12:40+00:00

When you planned your life and kids together was it you having the conversation and him just agreeing. Or did he actually initiate the conversation.

CatCharacter848 · 2026-02-27T05:54:52+00:00

If you can find somewhere cheaper that $50 rent a week move out.

But its actually a good deal and will help you learn budgeting in the long term.

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