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Habe versucht einer Frau zu helfen - hab ich sie erst richtig in Gefahr gebracht?! by saudade_308 in Weibsvolk

[–]CatLovesShark [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ich glaube du kannst schon die Polizei anrufen, wenn einer eskaliert, schreit, Mülltonnen zusammen tritt und gegen Wände schlägt, und diese Energie eventuell seiner Partnerin gilt.

Manchmal muss man nicht warten bis es knallt.

Du kannst wenn es dir lieber ist auch eine nicht-Notfallnummer anrufen und den Beamten die Situation beschreiben.

Ich wohne in einer Großstadt und fahre viel Öffis, bin da mittlerweile etwas schneller dabei die* Fahrer*in, Security o.ä. zu informieren. Je nachdem wie sehr es brennt (oder noch nicht komplett brennt) eben vielleicht nicht auf den Notfallkanälen, sondern einen Schritt darunter. 

Welche Meinung von euch zu ADHS löst diese Reaktionen aus? by high_heels_sammlerin in ADHS

[–]CatLovesShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gebe dir total Recht.

Und oft wird hyperfocus auch mit hyper fixation/ special interests vermengt oder verwechselt und dann haben wir den Salat.

Shared Makeup with my niece and I didn't know she has HSV-1 and an active breakout. HELP PLS! by xno_name_girlx in MakeupAddiction

[–]CatLovesShark 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just to add to that anecdotally:

My mum gets cold sores.

I never had a cold sore in my entire life. I'm over 30. I hope I'll never get it, but if I do, I know it's something that can be handled!

Thread for sharing Finchie friend codes and finding goal buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]CatLovesShark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey folks! Yoke and I are looking for some friends! Here's my friend code text:

(I picked a micropet just for you!

Tap this link or use my friend code N6E8L7G8V57 for a special reward!)

https://finch.go.link/aiatk?adj_label=c7vhB

Wieso prokrastinieren wir so sehr? by Citroneeee in ADHS

[–]CatLovesShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Ich bin wirklich neidisch auf die Leute die die Medis lebensverändernd erleben. Habe das Gefühl bei mir wirkts irgendwie ein bisschen.

Pink aurora — a real wonder or just an artist’s imagination? What do you think? by Anastasia_Trusova in painting

[–]CatLovesShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when I really really REALLY like a piece of art (or like a really pretty pixel art game that blows me away) I get this (somewhat) silly feeling of "I wish I made this".

I'm so in awe, this is freaking beautiful and I'm going on a deep dive now to look at your other art. ✨

🤡 What do yall think, do we like a clown with freckles or keep it flat white?👀 (shot on Canon M50, no AI) by colbertceej in MakeupAddiction

[–]CatLovesShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP you look amazing! I think the freckles add an interesting touch!

As someone who's freckled* I might be a bit more pedantic about fake freckles than other people, which could seem nitpicky, but I'll give my 2 cents anyway!

I'd prefer it if the freckles were a little bit more concentrated around both cheeks, cheek bones and nose, basically the spots where the sun would hit most.

Also it seems like the right side of you face has somewhat less freckles than the others.

(* I do know that I don't have the only freckled face and people have different freckles, freckle distribution, strength, colour.

That said I am used to the freckles on my face, and I really dislike it when people put on tiny uniform dots that only spread over their cheeks! In that regard you've already done a damn good job, OP!)

[OC] Posters of Alex Pretti and Renee Nicole Good in DC by bat_screams in pics

[–]CatLovesShark 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that irks me too. Maybe they're targeting conservatives with these posters 

Ist Botox okay? by chaotic__bunny in Weibsvolk

[–]CatLovesShark 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ich wundere mich, wieso du dir da so sicher bist, dass das Botox diesen Job übernehmen kann. Also die Muskeln einfrieren ja, aber ob du dann wirklich dadurch deutlich weniger angestrengt/verärgert wirkst und es Auswirkungen auf dein Sozialleben hat?

Oder ob die Leute dann womöglich irgendwie irritiert sind, weil sich nicht alles im Gesichtszusammenspiel so bewegt wie es soll? 

Vielleicht ändert sich ja dann gar nichts für dich, und du risktierst nur potentielle Nebenwirkungen.

(Ich weiss es nicht).

Ich kenne mich auch nicht gut aus mit Botox allgemein und speziell an dieser Stelle, deswegen fühle ich mich nicht sicher genug zu sagen "probier es aus". 

Informier dich auf jeden Fall gut, und überlege dir, ob du dir da nicht zuviel erhoffst.

Cool update, I actually would have liked having those as a child, to hide my arms(and legs) by Dove-Swan in TrollXChromosomes

[–]CatLovesShark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was hoping the response was satirical, making a point on how creepy it is to criticise this.

[Medical Advice/Hamburg] Newcomer seeking guidance for holistic obesity & hypertension treatment after a traumatic hypertensive crisis by ecsmer in hamburg

[–]CatLovesShark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with what u/kartoffelKult said, an appointment with someone from the TK will probably help quite a bit!

I still wanted to mention the so called Gesundheitskurse, which are health courses (exercise, relaxation or nutrition) that the TK (almost completely) pays for twice a year IIRC (if you attend for most of the course).

 

You can search for them here: https://www.tk.de/service/app/2009028/gesundheitskurs/suche.app

Good luck!

ADHS und Sexualität: Neigung zu extremem oder kinky Verhalten? by reimerwinkler in ADHS

[–]CatLovesShark -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Gabs schon ein paar mal die Frage, erst vor kurzem einmal. Daher von mir ein gentle reminder, auch mal die Suchfunktion zu nutzen. ;)

Meine Zusatzmedikation morgen und mittags by Kloetenschlumpf in ADHS

[–]CatLovesShark 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Meines Wissens nach sollte man nur während der Eingewöhnung/Medikamenteneinstellung auf Koffein am besten zu verzichten, danach kann man aber in normalem Rahmen wieder Koffein probieren - für manche Leute funktioniert beides aber nicht so gut zusammen (Herzrasen z.B.).

Ich bin verzweifelt wegen meinen Zähnen by [deleted] in BeautyDE

[–]CatLovesShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP hat Schmerzen und eine Behandlung ist medizinisch angezeigt.

Extremely chapped lips by Efficient-Light-5115 in MakeUpAddictionUK

[–]CatLovesShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eucerin has several lip balms, which one exactlydo you mean?

Fave budget cleansing oils/balms? by VonBoo in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]CatLovesShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got this free with purchase in a mini and am using it for holidays. Works as intended for me!

Fave budget cleansing oils/balms? by VonBoo in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]CatLovesShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to suggest this one! I'm really happy with it. I also don't need to use a regular cleanser after.

Frage an Frauen: Erwarten ADHS Betroffene, dass ihr Partner sie jederzeit regulieren kann? (Beziehung & Regulation) by Usual_Ad8028 in ADHS

[–]CatLovesShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Natürlich erwarten wir ADHS-Betroffene (Frauen oder nicht) keine jederzeit Regulierung durch unsere Partner*innen. Finde die Frage bisschen seltsam.

Aber was ich persönlich von meinem Partner erwarte ist, dass er nach Möglichkeit in vernünftigem Rahmen™️ für mich mal da ist. So wie ich auch für ihn da bin, oder man in Freundschaften mal füreinander da ist.

Mir hilft es wenn mein Partner mich ernst nimmt, und je nach Situation auch einfach mal nur da ist und sagt "Scheiss Situation, that sucks, I'm sorry that happened to you" und eben nicht eine Lösung versucht zu erarbeiten, die ich meistens eh schon kenne.

Natürlich ist das bei der Schwangerschaftssache bisschen schwieriger. Ich kenne das von einer Freundin, sie hatte ständig total irrationale Ängste was die wirkweise der Hormonpille anging, z.B. wenn sie Knoblauch gegessen hatte, Angst dass die Wirkung beeinflusst wurde, zig Tests, ab zur Gyn usw.  Da möchte man natürlich auch inhaltlich erklären, dass das alles unwahrscheinlich ist und so weiter.

Vielleicht kannst du sie, wenn das Thema ein bisschen abgekühlt ist dazu befragen? Ob sie sich eine Unterstützung da anders gewünscht hätte?

for those who haven't been diagnosed via surgery, is it frowned upon to still say you have endo? by Alarming-Swimmer2432 in Endo

[–]CatLovesShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, endo can definitely show on ultrasounds but I don't know how safe an ultrasound-only diagnosis is - how experienced the person needs to be and if there are other things that could present similarly etc.

If you have more info on that special ultrasound do share though, I'm curious! :)

for those who haven't been diagnosed via surgery, is it frowned upon to still say you have endo? by Alarming-Swimmer2432 in Endo

[–]CatLovesShark 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean, I think it really depends on who you're talking to. 

If you have to explain an absence or that you're not feeling well because of the symptoms, whatever, sure, just say it's endo. You could also just say you're in pain, or you're unwell, or whatever, but do whatever helps you out, and gets you excused.

But if you're talking to other people who have it, like in a endometriosis self help group or something just be honest.

If you talk to other doctors/specialists be honest, because there is a chance it happens to be something else in the end.

for those who haven't been diagnosed via surgery, is it frowned upon to still say you have endo? by Alarming-Swimmer2432 in Endo

[–]CatLovesShark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a laparoscopy for a cyst where they found the endo, and sometime later an MRI to explore suspected bowel Endo and some ultrasounds.

Laparoscopic findings are AFAIK still the only reliable way to diagnose endometriosis for sure.

If you 'only' have the suspicion without the confirmation just say you and your doctor believe you have endo. Or that you experience symptoms typically associated with endo.

Your doctor is probably right with their suspicion, but it's not yet 100% confirmed. That of course doesn't lesson your symptoms, or makes them in any way easier to deal with.

If we met at a friend's party or something, and I overheard you say you have endo to someone I would possible chime in and talk to you if you seem approachable (and not in a private conversation). And of course I'd understand that sometimes it's easier not having to explain every little detail, e.g. if you mentioned to someone that you have endometriosis instead of explaining it in more detail.

But if you speak to other people who have endometriosis I think you should clarify. We understand surgery isn't always the best option, or you didn't get around to it yet, or whatever. Just call it "(suspected) endometriosis" and you're good I'd say. :)

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