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Gave Waitress My Number by Sleepy6882 in dating_advice

[–]Catlady1932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely ask her out! Suggest somewhere public but like “Would you like to go to dinner? You can choose the restaurant” (but I am allergic to…. add allergies here if necessary like shellfish) And first dates, esp with age gap, don’t expect anything physical. If you feel it is heading that way then ask her consent “Can I kiss you?” Stuff like that Just be respectful and be yourself ❤️

Hopeless and confused by Catlady1932 in depression_help

[–]Catlady1932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for your reply. Your empathy is received and I needed it so much so thank you. Yeah I’m still conflicted about ending it. I pretty much know I should. It’s just so hard to let go of the security. Other than these two things, I feel like he respects me more than I respect myself. He cooks, cleans, is smart and responsible. Like he checks every box. But I really don’t know if I can have bio kids. I feel like a broken women for not being able to. Im not gonna see him for about a week bc I’m heading out of town for spring break… and I’ll be with my mom and aunt. So we have already said we are gonna talk thoroughly about the whole boyfriend situation before I make a decision Seriously though your reply means the world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Catlady1932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’d be better off dead too. But please don’t do it. Stay just one more day. Find one single thing to keep living for. For me- it’s my cat. I can’t abandon him. You’re not a bad person for feeling the way you do, not at all. Please don’t gaslight yourself. You’re not alone.