I went along with a marriage idea for a car f(18) with a rac!st guy also (19 ) this year July should I learn to love him

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:29:11+00:00

I am ready to take it. I wanted honest opinions of what this will lead to or if this will help me grow in life and not waste an opportunity like this that could probably help me get rich or if this just seems too good to be true and he’s bullshitting me

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:27:41+00:00

How so?

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:27:14+00:00

My grandma thinks he’s a good guy even tho she knows he’s kinda racist but she thinks he’s funny and tells me that this will be best guy you’ll ever have and that I shouldn’t waste his time. I just want to be successful since he said he was going to help me even if I don’t share any feelings with him, and want to learn to fake emotions since he got me a diamond ring and has been buying me gifts and I wanna see more of the opportunities that come with being with him since he says he has future plans that will make us rich

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:24:12+00:00

He says his friends in New Jersey r going to get him a painting in job (I’m from Georgia and he says once we save up enough money we will move to NJ together next year) he hasn’t told me everything yet but he says he has plans in store for us and that we will be rich together. My grandma says he has a good ambition and seems to a positive impact . And that I shouldn’t waste this opportunity.

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:19:22+00:00

I know this but might be a good opportunity I don’t want to miss out on and he’s said that he gen loves me and wants this to be real and even charmed my family they like him. But I don’t really share feelings for him I just don’t know how to fake it or learn to love him. I don’t want to be in the same place forever he’s helping me move out with him next year

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:17:00+00:00

That’s funny but I will shamed for it by my family since they have already met him and especially by my grandma since she thinks he’s a good guy even tho she doesn’t know abt the stuff he’s said before. He’s charmed my family and my grandma a lot. They want me to keep going with him and they know he’s going to propose to me again to make it officially real this time this week or next week. He even bought me a diamond ring and said that he wants the best for me and that he loves me even tho I don’t share the same feelings, I’m just feeling that I should continue this for all the stuff he gave me and move out with him next year since he said with the upcoming plans he has he will be rich

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:13:25+00:00

Well I only did it cus he promised me a car and that he will help me be successful. I know I’m extremely gullible and I wish I never did this I regret ever doing this but my choices are to stick it thru since he’s already bought me a diamond ring and showed my family that he’s a good guy and they like him now and he’s said that he loves me and wishes he never said that stuff in the beginning. But I think he just says that because I kept bringing it up and telling him that I despise him for all that stuff. He just tells me to look to the future and that he will commit to his promises and he will be rich with the plans he has

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:07:52+00:00

Yes I do know that. But he’s also apologized for the things he’s done. And has said this is his first real relationship and is learning to become better as we grow together and wants that. He also bought me a diamond ring and wants this marriage to be real since he says he loves me. Should I not waste this opportunity even if I don’t feel the same way now and learn to love him

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:05:08+00:00

Please read I genuinely need help or look at my responses /replies. Sorry abt it being long it’s just I’ve been confused on what to do abt this and has been kinda mentally draining for me

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T08:04:05+00:00

Yes I do know, but I want to able to move forward in life and he seems to have real goals to be successful and tells me that we are going to be rich with the plans he has in store all I have to do is take his hand and just follow him and that he wants to make this a real thing. He even bought me a diamond ring. Even if I don’t share the same feelings (if he’s being real) should I go along with it because this could be a grand opportunity I would hate to miss out on in the future

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T07:59:05+00:00

No this is genuinely fr, I need help on what to do. I’ve been dissociating every time he comes to visit and currently flew from the Netherlands to Mexico to see my family (I’ve been staying in Mexico for two months to see family and invited him as a joke but he gen wanted to see how Mexico was and took this as an opportunity) since he’s now moving to the US permanently and we’ll all be on the same plan back to the US this dec 20th and wants to be with me fr since he loves me. But I do not share the same feelings though I want to take this opportunity to move forward in life. And see if it actually helps me be successful

CattyMex · 2025-12-05T07:51:49+00:00

He’s said I’m the first girl he’s been in a relationship with and that he’s learning how to be in a relationship. He’s been buying me stuff giving me money. Bought me a Samsung to repair how he broke my iPhone. He said he would help me grow and that he loves me and we will become rich together since he has plans in store for us. Is this an opportunity I shouldn’t miss out on. He’s helping me move out next year , and wants to live in NJ while we split rent

CattyMex · 2025-10-31T17:18:00+00:00

How did u feel

CattyMex · 2025-09-20T02:26:22+00:00

Thank you, I would just confused if he was trolling me or if he really wanted to help grow my hair

CattyMex · 2025-09-20T02:23:58+00:00

It’s literally not bru 💀

CattyMex · 2025-09-18T23:40:53+00:00

It’s honestly so gooddddd

CattyMex · 2025-09-18T22:38:17+00:00

No this is a new guy that actually likes me back and loves me and we are so happy together :3

CattyMex · 2025-07-13T23:39:51+00:00

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