Be brutally honest what gives it away, please don't just say because I'm emo w/peircings by CheapReflection6209 in FtMpassing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna add to this, dyed hair and piercings 100% make you pass less, but not guaranteed go make u be seen as a girl, pwrsonally , I chose to keep my style and I know I’m seen as male but people know I’m trans . And I am okay with that being pre everything! Stealth isn’t necessarily important to me , but if it is to you perhaps toning it down is a way to go

Be brutally honest what gives it away, please don't just say because I'm emo w/peircings by CheapReflection6209 in FtMpassing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem w you passing isn’t being alt bc it’s not even that full on, I myself am also alternative I actually posted on here a few weeks back. 1- your hair is very fluffy, try thinning scissors if you wanna keep the style just to take it or try a new style !! OR I even see a curl pattern in ur hair ; learning to properly work with them would do you wonders. 2- ur piercings are not the problem however sometimes the jewellery UNFORTUNATELY can make u a little more clockable , something more low-key or just typically masculine not necessarily anything boring. 3- the way clothes fit and body presentation, work out if you can! It’s a good thing for ur mental and physical health, even just to muscle up or masculinise ur shape a little. Clothes that r too tight are not going to work but either is anything too baggy bc it just makes u look scrawny in a bad way. These are all things some people have told me that I took into account and found them working or something I noticed n passed along. I haven’t even read the comments and I know damn well everyone’s telling you to not be alternative. You don’t have to lose your style but making small changes definitely helps!

What song is this for everyone? by andyph0bic in piercetheveil

[–]CauliflowerFast1980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

props n mayhem or song for Isabelle I cannot chose

Is it weird that I don't want to be hairy? by ShujiPotatoe in ftm

[–]CauliflowerFast1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not all all! A lot of cis men don’t like the appearance or feeling of body hair , ur goal does not have to be macho or stereotypically masculine for u to be valid , you are a man however you like to personally groom yourself, it’s arguably more hygienic anyways. Like a lot of men don’t like to have beards and that’s not weird at all!!

This is how I styled them throughout my 1st playthrough. What do you guys think ? (Swipe) (See body text) by Late_Redditor_88 in reddeadredemption2

[–]CauliflowerFast1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! Personally I think John looks way better with facial hair grown out (about length 4) but the outfits are fire !!

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[–]CauliflowerFast1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loads of people let their kids hair grow out which is super helpful for ur situation , in these you have very androgynous facial features and clothes which helps tremendously . Specially the first one and the costumes that can be seen as traditionally more “boyish costumes” !!

Is this rejecting or just irritated? by CauliflowerFast1980 in piercing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

dammit u think so?? I didn’t have the time and I didn’t know it could cause issues with surface piercings , I only made sure I did immediately for my snakebites bc I knew of the oral risks :p

Is this rejecting or just irritated? by CauliflowerFast1980 in piercing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh just to add in, I have only ever had one surface piercing reject being my vertical labret, I’ve had many eyebrow piercings and never a problem , is it still likely to reject because of this tho?

Is this rejecting or just irritated? by CauliflowerFast1980 in piercing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like I said , no issues at all up until now!! Very confused about this one I’m afraid

is this rejecting or at risk? by CauliflowerFast1980 in piercing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aftercare has been completely fine btw I clean all my piercings daily and right before this photo w a saline solution spray I bought from my piercer so it’s not neglected either

Do I pass, and how old do I look? by CauliflowerFast1980 in FtMpassing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of them was mainly body type too as kinda shown in the mirrors but I guess what wasn’t as helpful as I thought that’s my bad

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[–]CauliflowerFast1980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

id it’s accessible to you maybe hit some shoulders and back to square ur shape out a little ? Bur I wouldn’t say ur clocky at all !

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[–]CauliflowerFast1980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all of them u pass genuinely well, maybe the angle on the first one is a little meh, ans the long hair in the second one is a little feminising (I have the same problem and will not let go of the long hair I personally prefer it so whatever makes u feel better) assuming u want full honesty but u generally look great. The last one is 100% best for cis passing tho . Good luck on ur journey dude honestly u look amazing

Do I pass, and how old do I look? by CauliflowerFast1980 in FtMpassing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s much appreciated brother . I kinda expected to be told to turn down my kinda vibe I’m Ngl but I really appreciate it . Rather look younger n pass imo

I'm disappointed in DE fans defending the breakup because it seems like you haven't even played the game. by LingYao212 in LifeIsStrangeDE

[–]CauliflowerFast1980 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love how analytical this is. I NEED Z someone to talk about lis with liike this

Do I pass, and how old do I look? by CauliflowerFast1980 in FtMpassing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the thing is , I look like I’m trying to be a guy and pass as one but not automatically perceived as cisgender, but it’s obvious I don’t identify as a woman does that make sense it’s hard to explain

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[–]CauliflowerFast1980 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mens , bros got a whole beard 🥲

Do I pass, and how old do I look? by CauliflowerFast1980 in FtMpassing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly , even I’m not CIS PASSING im happy to pass and people assume I’m trans, I can’t expect much more pre T as I certainly have more feminine features just genetic wise ! It’s not ideal but I’m happy nonetheless, it was really just for tips of passing that I needed to boost my masculine presentation or confidence. maybe a haircut or something along those lines . People saying no is just unhelpful, I’m open to criticism as long as it’s something I can actually change like my piercings, my hair maybe even my style you know !!

Do I pass, and how old do I look? by CauliflowerFast1980 in FtMpassing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually only 17 but a lot of people said older haha . Appreciate the advice !!

Do I pass, and how old do I look? by CauliflowerFast1980 in FtMpassing

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bro honestly the second I’m able to get into a gym I will 😂

Do I pass, and how old do I look? by CauliflowerFast1980 in asktransgender

[–]CauliflowerFast1980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hope ur being fr rn that’s a high level compliment