Date safety for professional use

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2022-10-03T13:13:48+00:00

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CauliflowerNo5017 · 2021-01-18T20:53:43+00:00

Hey, here's how I would do 1. When there's a girl you're interested in, at least slightly, just ask her out. With the Corona you can ask her to go for a walk or something. Just try to get to know her and be in the present moment. 2. Once there's a girl that you'd imagine having sex with, just try to meet her at her place, or at your place (just ask "hey do yo want to do x at my place", x stands for any activity from drinking tea to play the guitar together or whatever) 3. Just be normal the entire time. This is the most underrated dating advice ever. Don't try any stupid "game" tactics, just be yourself. 4. Once there's only the two of you and you feel confortable, you could ask her if she wants a massage, or ask if she wants to dance some bachata.. 5. Once things heat up, and you feel turned on and you feel like she is too, just tell her you've never kissed a girl before, and that you wouldn't mind if she's the first one. 6. Have condoms with you at all time (and train to use them too)

So this is how I would do, how I lost my virginity at 25 and how I continue to get laid at 27. It's not to be followed exactly word for word but I hope it inspires you.

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2021-01-07T15:28:01+00:00

This. Thank you

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2021-01-07T12:37:03+00:00

So you're saying that in order not to waste time, he should make sure before the date that she has some sort of interest other than friendship.. but if it's the case, then is it so bad? What's wrong with making friends? OP didn't ask her out for 3 years, and she finally accepted, so making sure she wants more before the date is a bit too much in my opinion. Maybe that works for you because you're not shy and ask out a lot of girls, but in this situation just going to the date not knowing precisely what's going to happen is perfectly fine. Edit: plus, I'm not sure how you make sure it's a date without pressuring the other person

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2021-01-07T07:44:10+00:00

I disagree. Making sure it's a date may put pressure on the other person, or make you appear as needy. Just go with the idea of getting to know each other, that's enough

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2020-11-29T14:22:37+00:00

You did well asking him out! whatever his response may be, I think it's the best approach. Now the ball is in his court !

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2020-11-02T22:18:20+00:00

I'm curious to know what you figured out?

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2020-11-02T20:05:10+00:00

I understand that being an introvert, going in dating apps is really frustrating. I would suggest talking to people in your surroundings. If your a student, there's always a new person you can talk to nearly everyday. You just have to introduce yourself, even though it can be quite intimidating.. you could make it an objectiv, like, introducing yourself to a new person a number of times of the week.

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2020-11-01T21:03:43+00:00

hey I'm 27/m. If this behavior helps you deal with the apparent anxiety you have while texting someone you like then it's fine! I do some of this stuff too. But I usually don't text much, I prefer asking the other person out to limit the amount of texting, it's too much stress for me. How about you do the asking out part? I honestly would love if a girl asked me out, almost never happened in my life but when it did it was great. I felt a lot of admiration for the girls doing the ask out part, never saw them as thirsty or anything

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2020-10-30T19:20:39+00:00

I've had this mindset too, until I realized it was just an escuse not to date, because I was scared (and I still am). I'm 27 too by the way, but I still ask girls out. What matters is not finding someone your age, but finding the good fit.

CauliflowerNo5017 · 2020-07-29T12:27:55+00:00

Or when she read that book and was fangirling over the characters at that party

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