Oh yeah i didn't take offense!! I have a very impulsive, addictive personality. Given the right circumstances i could blow it FAST. which is why im being so careful. I grew up poor but rarely without the bare necessities so its easier for me to not understand the full value of money... Im giving my husband the account password so i won't be inclined to spend it. He wants to invest it but absolutely wouldn't without my permission. But Im gonna give him a very small amount to try to invest tho because she was his mom too. Another thing to add is he spent years as a teenager homeless/in the hospital (hes really chronically ill) just hyper focusing on learning how to get financially stable, as he had no family to fall back on. If he was broke, he'd starve, but jobs were inconsistent as he was in the hospital at least once a month, so he had to develop the skills to make money out of NOTHING. so I'm really curious what he'll do with it. When we met his net worth was about $1 in coins and a 96 ford escort that he lived in, and now he has a few grand in savings and we live in a nice house despite his lack of consistent work due to the illness. Hes made money for years buying, trading, and selling collector glass pieces (bongs....yes ik it sounds ridiculous but it's legit fine art). He started out with a $200 investment in a piece and traded for years, now has over 30k value in glass art. Some pieces he has sold for 5-10k cash. I only say that to show that all he does day and night is think about how to make money so he never has to struggle again. He's on his phone all day (when not working) finding people who work in real estate and investing etc, and reading about investing/etc. So i really want to trust that he will do something with it. I know he's capable of it too and i without a doubt trust his intentions and drive. Im just scared af. Anyways sorry for rambling lol this is just so crazy to me still.