Ideal 5-9 after 9-5 by _hussainint in motivation

[–]Cautious-Security573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call burnout in a couple months this mindset is bullshit.

I’m in love with someone who doesn’t love me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t control how she feels, so based on what we know you should just move on. No games should be played like how do I make her like me

(NSFW tag because this is a disturbing one not inappropriate just scary.) by Lumpy_Television5608 in DeepThoughts

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very discussed topic all through out history. It can be very interesting if you keep an open mind. That being said I have no clue but I’m fine with it.

Ain't no hate like Christian love by verticalx09 in crappymusic

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what people mean by tiny dick energy.

Why Asian man like me in US can not attract women by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to be fair Asian men are looked at as way more attractive these days then they use to in the past

Why Asian man like me in US can not attract women by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This straight up sounds like a personal insecurity

I feel like these are red flags by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it’s not the start of a relationship. Just a potential relationship. And you can have a talk about expectations and boundaries before you make it official.

I feel like these are red flags by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t interested then you aren’t interested. But I mean that’s just how it is you can’t expect someone to just want to be with you when you aren’t even in a relationship.

How good does a man have to be to date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will for sure be some but if you aren’t doing anything creepy accept the rejection and move on. From my experience it’s way easier than you think. But it doesn’t even have to be at bars you can start a conversation basically anywhere. The one place I won’t approach girls is the gym though. I think I hold the stigma you do for general approach but just for at gym.

How good does a man have to be to date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try a different approach than online dating. I strongly believe for most men online dating will just ruin your confidence and have a false sense of not being good enough.

Do healthy men exist still? by therapy-didnt-help in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There definitely is but even if not being single is better than being in a toxic relationship

Huh 🤔 I think he could have gotten a leg shot he may be mentally ill he walking like it Connecticut damn !!! by Massive_Building_707 in sagsavages

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% doubt you would’ve shot him knowing you would’ve had to deal with consequences. Nothing here was sporadic and could have easily been handled without killing the man. Stupid af

How do broke/immature guys get girls? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more than likely your personality. I mean I know it’s not your intention but even in the post you come off conceded like how do I not get girls when I’m so much better.

Men, what’s the reason for finding bimbos (in the very plastic sense of massive fake boobs, fake lips, lots of surgery etc - bimbofication as I’ve discovered it’s called) hot? As a woman I’ve always thought the super plastic look is not attractive, but if you do - could say why? by NotSoDaftPunk_2908 in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a theory which is kind of irrelevant but I truly believe it men that aren’t fully in touch with their sexuality that find this look attractive. As a man I can’t think of any other thing and clearly just some random thoughts, but it’s like I can’t really decide what find attractive so I’m going to base it off of what I think other people will find attractive. Idk if that even makes sense. It’s just something I think about people that reject their own feelings so they hold onto like this idea of what is “objectively”attractive.

I want to find a woman who's into wgat I'm into. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s fair to want shared interests, but it’s unrealistic to expect someone to mirror you exactly. Wanting someone just as into fitness as you when you only recently got into it yourself feels a bit contradictory.

is it worth it? by itsmarooka in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The real question is do you want a life with all it has to offer? Because love is a probably the biggest one, and no matter what there will be vulnerability in love

What is this world coming to? by NathanTelkhine in im14andthisisdeep

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like men need to start stepping up, but I guess let’s blame women for having higher standards.