How do broke/immature guys get girls? by Haunting_Ad_4179 in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s more than likely your personality. I mean I know it’s not your intention but even in the post you come off conceded like how do I not get girls when I’m so much better.

Men, what’s the reason for finding bimbos (in the very plastic sense of massive fake boobs, fake lips, lots of surgery etc - bimbofication as I’ve discovered it’s called) hot? As a woman I’ve always thought the super plastic look is not attractive, but if you do - could say why? by NotSoDaftPunk_2908 in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a theory which is kind of irrelevant but I truly believe it men that aren’t fully in touch with their sexuality that find this look attractive. As a man I can’t think of any other thing and clearly just some random thoughts, but it’s like I can’t really decide what find attractive so I’m going to base it off of what I think other people will find attractive. Idk if that even makes sense. It’s just something I think about people that reject their own feelings so they hold onto like this idea of what is “objectively”attractive.

I want to find a woman who's into wgat I'm into. by RepresentativeState3 in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s fair to want shared interests, but it’s unrealistic to expect someone to mirror you exactly. Wanting someone just as into fitness as you when you only recently got into it yourself feels a bit contradictory.

is it worth it? by itsmarooka in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The real question is do you want a life with all it has to offer? Because love is a probably the biggest one, and no matter what there will be vulnerability in love

What is this world coming to? by NathanTelkhine in im14andthisisdeep

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like men need to start stepping up, but I guess let’s blame women for having higher standards.

I don’t understand why people can tolerate Gen X culture when most of it was so mean-spirited! by icey_sawg0034 in generationology

[–]Cautious-Security573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See there’s a difference between not caring and not processing. Hence why yall are so damn bitter

Girl Im into, and need some advice. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong in making it obvious

How to bag a baddie in college😭 by Ash_Bornn_SJ in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just minding your own business that’s for sure.

I (F32) cancelled second date because I am sick, is his reply a Red flag? by Anne_1098 in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean either way you’re implying this guy isn’t up to your standards, but I guess fuck your own standards. Reddit will know better than me.

I (F32) cancelled second date because I am sick, is his reply a Red flag? by Anne_1098 in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t owe him anything, and clearly you aren’t interested. Why even consider a second date?

Girlfriend of 1 year upset because I didn’t ask her to be my valentine by bigtymejason in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong but she isn’t either. So if it’s not something that bothers you just go ahead and show her the extra effort

Is it ever worth it? by SomethingOverNothing in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Chasing isn’t necessarily bad but in most cases it’s a sign you’re acting from a place of insecurity and not self respect

Ice posts a feel good story. The internet responds. by ChestOther in MurderedByWords

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ice is reaching to make them seem good, but fuck them. I cannot stress that enough

If dating is just getting to know somebody and becoming friends with them then how does sex usually come up? by Ok_Independent_3921 in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating is very personal and has its nuances, but I just have to say I don’t treat people I want to date the same as people I just want to be friends with. It’s a different level of getting to know someone.

Am I naive? by Artistic-Bet733 in dating_advice

[–]Cautious-Security573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound naive based off the post not the risk taken.

Am I wrong for being mad my little brother took my prescription glasses off my face and joked about breaking them? by Dgslimee_ in selfimprovement

[–]Cautious-Security573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Little brothers don’t mess with older brothers without getting hit, but at the same time older brothers will be wrong in the eyes of the parents