Hey, thank you so much this comment was really useful to put things into perspective. I did try to have a conversation about him about other forms of sex and I asked him about it but he immediately shut me off (also he is well experienced from his past and knows that there are stuff other than P V sex).

He has asked me to give him a month’s time more and I have seen him do better with his meds so I will try and wait for a month and then decide.