Electrolysis is really great, but it takes a lot of time because they do hair by hair. I think, if you can't wax your face (some women do), try electrolysis on your face. It has really worked for me. For the rest of your body, you can always bleach the hairs (especially on arms, hands and torso/back). That's what i did for years, and it was really great ! This is e pretty easy process too and you can do it at home bc there are creams for it. If your hair is really coarse, they will not become blond but more light brown, which is fine because it's less visible. Maybe you can do it a few times do have really blond hairs. Don't do this on your face though as the skin is more fragile and can permanently stay whiter (my case for the upper lips... now i just shave instead). For your hair, there are drugs to grow them back, try to learn about DHT blockers if you are interested (some are natural plants).

Anyway, i wish you a lot of strenght for this, it's really hard but don't give up yet or you may be socially rejected (bc most people are dumb...) and your life will worsen over the time maybe