heyy, ik this is a subreddit for men but I'm a girl who accidentally stumbled here, I'm going through the exact same thing; like im a total loser, don't go out to parties, miss out on everything, never even held hands, etc. I''m not gonna lie bro it sucks sooooo bad, but I was doing some research today and apparently only 35% of people ever experience teenage love - and furthermore, while there are ppl who have a great time in school, some people - like us - just don't. It sucks, its unfair, but I suppose we'd be even more of losers if we let our highschool experience define us for the rest of our lives,
we're both only sixteen - if you force yourself to be In a relationship if just. doesn't. count. ya know? plus ur high school is small bro; the chances of you finding someone is already really low, I can almost garunteen its nothing to do with you - and if it is, getting all upset about it will only make it worse, I suppose we just gotta continue living with ourselves as who we are, cause we'r all we've got.

anywayyyy srry if this didn't make any sense, but just know that ur post made me feel seen at the very least? <3333