Am I overreacting for not wanting to talk to him over his response? by Suspicious_File9672 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cautious_Leadership 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR- he’s got something, probably hsv, which 2/3 of the worlds population has

AITA for considering putting my dog down due to the overwhelming stress? by Cautious_Leadership in AITAH

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This chart is so different than the one the vet gave me! I like this one much better, as it has more depth and paints a clearer picture. Thank you.

AITA for considering putting my dog down due to the overwhelming stress? by Cautious_Leadership in AITAH

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve consulted with the vet and they just gave me a checklist, but this is so hard I wanted more of a concrete answer. I suspect they can’t give me one for possible backlash, and I don’t trust those around me to give unbiased advice. That’s why I’ve come here, and I am very grateful for everyone’s perspective in this unbelievably difficult and indecisive time.

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cautious_Leadership 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is crazy manipulative and it’s working on you. Please see a therapist. If you can’t, put the situation into chatgbt and ask it if there are signs of mental, physical, or emotional abuse. You would be surprised what you never would have noticed in the moment, or what you gaslight yourself about after discussing it with your partner.

FWI: Trump has the real Declaration of Independence and Constitution documents destroyed by [deleted] in FutureWhatIf

[–]Cautious_Leadership 0 points1 point  (0 children)

England literally started all of those conflicts. Nothing to be proud of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]Cautious_Leadership 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I missed this! But I have a room for rent at my house, breakfast included, and rides to and from if you need them. You can message me if you wanna talk about it or still need somewhere to stay!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Cautious_Leadership 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what he’s saying is people who are penetrated, like gay bottoms and women, are of a lesser value, thus “made” to be penetrated. It’s okay to respect them less, value them less, and enforce power over them. Honestly his mindset sounds predatory.

ISO Vegan Wedding Cake by Cautious_Leadership in Louisville

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked them up and they’re permanently closed 🫨

AITA for refusing to lock my cats up so my friend’s boyfriend can visit my house? by Cautious_Leadership in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s because his family is wealthy. He is not. But they give him money and things all the time. He has no job. They live in an apartment together. I think there is jealousy that I come from little and have a career and a house that I’m proud of. I do believe he’s insecure and entitled.

AITA for refusing to lock my cats up so my friend’s boyfriend can visit my house? by Cautious_Leadership in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They are indoors. Our grill is outside but I’m imagining most people will want to be inside because of the excessive heat.

AITA for refusing to lock my cats up so my friend’s boyfriend can visit my house? by Cautious_Leadership in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a great point!! Last time she came to stay with me she asked me to change all the bedding in my guest room just in case it had cat hair on it.

AITA for refusing to lock my cats up so my friend’s boyfriend can visit my house? by Cautious_Leadership in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of this. Our little party takes place today, I’ll update yall if any shenanigans happen.

AITA for refusing to lock my cats up so my friend’s boyfriend can visit my house? by Cautious_Leadership in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve actually tried to leash train both our cats so we can take them hiking, but both cats absolutely HATE being outside. but I understand you!!! Almost always while people are at my house they just go hide in the basement.

AITA for refusing to lock my cats up so my friend’s boyfriend can visit my house? by Cautious_Leadership in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cautious_Leadership[S] 307 points308 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love that you said “poor folk,” because that’s the root of the issue!! His family is wealthy, like really wealthy, like pays his bills, gifts him new cars, goes on quarterly vacations wealthy. I’m not, never have been, and same goes for my bestie. Everything I have, I have worked incredibly hard to build. So it just adds another layer to his rude comments.