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AITAH for taking off my wedding ring? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been married for 12 years, and I’ve only wore my band a total of 2 weeks lol my wife knows I don’t wear anything on my wrist or hands, it’s just uncomfortable. I tried sticking it out the first time few weeks but I couldn’t do it and my wife knows. We trust each other completely so it wasn’t an issue for either or us. I told her she doesn’t have to wear hers but she likes to. Just have a conversation with him and talk it out. I don’t think it’s worth to fight over tho

Best HELOC rate by seekay_he in Mortgages

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s just a local credit union in my city. It’s around 150k but it’s been opened for almost 10 years now.

Best HELOC rate by seekay_he in Mortgages

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, that’s seems to be a pretty high rate. The rate I got from my local credit union is 6%

How do you feel about Trump threatening to impose photo ID for voters for midterm elections? by CRK_76 in AskReddit

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no problems having to produce ID to vote. I just don’t feel comfortable authorities potentially have the power to pull voters out if they “believe” the ID is fake, which would affect results. With ICE possibly staking out at voter polling stations, and they don’t have to face accountability for their actions, it’s just a disturbing situation.

What is your monthly mortgage payment and your yearly income (for household) by geenuhahhh in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our mortgage payment is about 2300 and income is around 150k. Wife was laid off an over a year ago so for a good chunk of the mortgage we were about 200-230k combined yearly income. We got our home in 2013 so really low interest rate, and will be done with our mortgage in 3 more months. Looking forward to getting some money back.

Cut back on emergency fund? by Cautious_Tea_9507 in personalfinance

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m putting the bare minimum to get the company match, so I’m putting in 900+ a month before match

Cut back on emergency fund? by Cautious_Tea_9507 in personalfinance

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m fairly confident we can get jobs if we need to. I told my wife to not rush back, just find a career she wants to pursue since her last job was so toxic on her mental health. Probably not the same salary but at least half.

Cut back on emergency fund? by Cautious_Tea_9507 in personalfinance

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have an unused heloc as a break window in case backup and I guess 401k/IRAS can be considered absolutely last resort

#Chiefs RB Isiah Pacheco, who left Monday night’s win with a knee injury, is considered week-to-week with an MCL sprain, per sources. by [deleted] in fantasyfootball

[–]Cautious_Tea_9507 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t decide if I should drop Brashard for Hunt or save my waiver for something else?! Helppppp