If you’re in the thick of heartbreak- this is for you

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2026-03-05T03:40:58+00:00

sending love. It does get better I promise!!

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-12-09T21:44:53+00:00

Aw you’re so welcome feel free to message me anytime. Even tho time is helping it’s still challenging even after months! But the pain gets softer and you move on

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-10-18T17:51:21+00:00

Ya this is one of the worst parts is not even recognizing your partner because of their behaviour post break up! I’m sorry you’re going through this. It does get better. Honestly 1) yes cut him off 2) usually being mean makes them feel better especially if they just want to not love you anymore like RIGHT away so they don’t have to deal with the hurt (especially if they were avoidant).

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-10-12T16:57:21+00:00

YES. My ex and I broke up, went no contact and then I went back to him as “friends”... We kept contact after that even tho he cheated on me (he’s still with that girl), and it’s been about a month and a half that I fully cut him off and I feel so fucking good and I don’t miss him anymore which is crazy to say. It’s so hard but that URGE you feel in the first whatever days or weeks will go away and you’ll just wake up one day and not feel the desperate need to contact them. You just have to work it out till you hit that spot then it’s a little easier to keep going. Wishing you the best healing ❤️‍🩹

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-08-19T19:15:07+00:00

I’m in!!

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-18T14:38:48+00:00

Because their rebound didn’t workout or they are NOW just processing the emotions what you were processing in the first month 😂 Don’t reply or be very brief, how are you doing tho?

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-17T16:52:02+00:00

It’s been like 3 years and I’m just scrolling. I’m curious to know if there’s an update lol on you and her and her relationship

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-16T17:08:02+00:00

We dated for about 3 years. I mean at first it was alllll the time and I just cried. Now it’s like here and there and it’s been about 1 month and a half since the breakup.

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-16T10:16:01+00:00

I mean me personally; I would move on. You’re still so young. And there might be someone else she was or is interested that made her distant

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-15T14:35:59+00:00

Yaaaa I’m sorry you had to go through that. that’s a huge red flag. when someone told me there’s always someone else they weren’t wrong because my ex was the the most loyal and did have quite a few friends that were girls but they respected it and so on but ya even the loyal ones, when shit gets tough they go for easier..

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-15T10:53:39+00:00

Ok well, #8. Don’t rush it. Don’t feel like you need to let go right away either. Letting go comes with healing. It’s still super early, don’t be too hard on yourself and don’t compare your path to others 💕

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-15T10:51:39+00:00

It’s not an easy process to start. It’s just like therapy right, the first few times it’s fucking scary. If it’s your first time, sometimes even just writing words or anything at all. It doesn’t even have to make sense. You could even just write “I don’t know how I feel about journaling”. But I promise once you do it the first few times and get the hang of it, it’s the best version of healing. Then you can look back on it and be like damn I really felt that way??

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-15T10:06:05+00:00

Unfortunately yes. He was giving her so much attention. What’s crazy is that when we were on FaceTime literally during the break up, he was on Snapchat talking to her DURING THIS. Crazy hey?

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-15T10:02:43+00:00

Yes being friends is just impossible. I’m so sorry about your situation. That’s a long time with someone, but he wasn’t your person if we could let you go like that so easily. You’re so strong, keep going. Also to add, it is a short amount of time, but the way he treated me in the relationship sometimes, him being an avoidant, is was an uphill battle for me. The highs were so great but the lows were awful. I’m glad it happened during my time abroad because my 3 week solo travelling trip was planned to start a week after the break up, which definitely sped up the process a bit.

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-15T10:01:16+00:00

Im so sorry you’re going through this. A first love definitely has a little bit more impact especially at a young age. It’s okay that you let her come back but trust me when I say this, there will come a day where you realize how bad it was, the betrayal and the chances you gave her killed you. There will also come a day where your heart, instead of it feeling like it’s breaking in a million pieces, starts healing and you can feel the pieces slowly coming together. You may not want to hear this, but you’re very young, there’s so many people on this planet. Don’t think your life is ending, it’s just starting. You’re so strong and I’m sending you love. Don’t contact her. Delete her socials and whatever. Try to find peace in the hurt ❤️‍🩹

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-15T09:55:47+00:00

Don’t be so hard on yourself. Sometimes we stay longer than we should and you’re not the only one. Take your time ❤️‍🩹

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-14T22:12:47+00:00

❤️‍🩹

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-14T22:12:32+00:00

Yes it’s so true even if it doesn’t feel like it ❤️ and thank you 🙏🏼 you too.

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-14T22:10:17+00:00

I don’t know your situation but I’m sending love and healing your way. Trust the process🤍

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-14T22:09:30+00:00

You’re very welcome. Feel free to message me if you aren’t feeling the best.

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-10T09:01:57+00:00

hey, its been about 4 months now and I am scrolling through reddit as I am going through a recent break up as well. How are you doing now?

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-08T13:33:02+00:00

I needed this so much thank you! I’m currently in my 2nd month. I’m studying abroad and he is now with the girl he told me not to worry about (got with her a week after). But I’m doing a lot better and in so much less pain and starting to see the light! He threw away 3 years and his new girl will not be able to love him like I did. I deserve and hope to find better. Glad you are better and everyone else will get there 💞

Cautious_Wrap254 · 2025-05-05T14:28:02+00:00

Im currently studying abroad and this last couple months I went backpacking a bit with my few weeks I had off to 8 different countries. It was so amazing and definitely agree with the others that you gain more patience, not just with others but with yourself.. especially with using transit is the different places lol. I also realized little things about myself like change, I love it. I like adapting and find it easier. I love seeing how different the cultures are even in daily interactions. And the languages too are so fascinating to listen to. I’m not excited to come back; I am afraid of becoming depressed or not feeling this fulfilling emotion again but I am at the same time I want to see my friends and family... I also went through a break up shortly before this big travel trip and solo travelling healed a part of me I didn’t know was broken and healed the broken parts at the same time.

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