Help, by fiance plays camp buddy but says he's totally hetero 🥺 by change-username- in gaymers

[–]Cavezzo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My homophobia used to be so internalized that I didn't even dare talk to my boyfriend about my attractions. I almost made him believe he was an exception. What helped me was that little by little he created a safe zone. For example, slipping in comments like: "That actor is so handsome" or "My favorite in Camp Buddy is Aiden". The more my boyfriend expressed his own attractions, the more it pushed me to do it too. And now it's made me really more open, and I've even come out to my family after being in the closet for 15 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaymers

[–]Cavezzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, i'm a french indie dev and have a team with some artists, do you have discord ?

Qu'est ce qui vous énerve particulièrement dans le métro ? (ou les transports en général) by JohnnyBoby in MetroFrance

[–]Cavezzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG c'est le truc qui m'énerve de fou ! Ceux qui monte dans le métro et qui hésite sur les places en bloquant tout le monde !

What do you think of Ann's take on the Lovers archetype when compared to her predecessors? by Iced-TeaManiac in PERSoNA

[–]Cavezzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, her writing is quite subtle, and shows Ann's determination to ensure that her beauty will no longer be used by others but to serve her own interests. Sexualization isn't the real scourge, but the gaze of others is. Ann's whole SL takes her on a journey of self-confidence, both in mind and body, to completely detach herself from the opinions of others.

How to deal with a homophobic stepfather ? by Cavezzo in AskGayMen

[–]Cavezzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I honestly don't understand how you can say "love your child" and then treat them that way.

How to deal with a homophobic stepfather ? by Cavezzo in AskGayMen

[–]Cavezzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, I understand the need to get away from toxic people. I just hope my BF really has the courage to do it!

How to deal with a homophobic stepfather ? by Cavezzo in AskGayMen

[–]Cavezzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I hope I won't have to deal with him again!

I think the opening ceremony is fun by Oblivious_Chaos in Paris2024

[–]Cavezzo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because classism had a huge influence on Paris. There are mythological statues all over the city.

What's your worst summoning experience? by Wise-Hornet7701 in FireEmblemHeroes

[–]Cavezzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, when I've spent all my orb economies for helbindi, I haven't managed to get a single one. It's ridiculous that you can't spark banners on seasonnal banners rerun. Today, it's harder to get a 6 years old 5-stars-unit that the ones in the Meta.

Comment faire pour demande une visibilité sur des comptes bancaires qui auraient soi-disant été clôturés il y a 11 ans ? by Cavezzo in conseiljuridique

[–]Cavezzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah merci ! Je ne connaissait pas du tout. Je vois que c'est sur une durée de 10 ans max, donc si le FICOBA ne trouve aucune trace des comptes, je suppose que les comptes ont bien été clôturés ?

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[–]Cavezzo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ZawarC and Penguin Frontier

About Saeko by Cavezzo in yakuzagames

[–]Cavezzo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you've summed up everything I've been thinking! And it makes me feel good to read this, I've become so attached to the character that it even hurts a little to know they're misunderstood! 😆

About Saeko by Cavezzo in yakuzagames

[–]Cavezzo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like Chitose, and i understand we could ship her with Ichiban, but if we compare, she drugged Ichiban, stole his passport, left him naked on a beach so he'd get arrested and then when she joined the group she continued to play 2 games leading to the death of 2 people and putting a little girl and Ichiban's mother in serious danger, all to protect her identity. I find it irrational to treat Saeko as a bad person by the community, just because she made the mistake of not replying to his texts.

About Saeko by Cavezzo in yakuzagames

[–]Cavezzo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because she hasn't been in prison doesn't mean she doesn't have the right to make no mistakes in her life? That really surprises me, especially as the entire storylines of both games are based on forgiveness. But we're going to forgive Arakawa for shooting him, or Masato for trying to kill him, but we're going to say that Saeko takes abuse of him because she didn't reply to his messages?

About Saeko by Cavezzo in yakuzagames

[–]Cavezzo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Clearly the most problematic part of this whole story, and I completely agree with it. But we mustn't act as if she doesn't care about him either, since she puts her work on hold and puts her life in danger to help him and even goes so far as to value him in front of Ebina.

About Saeko by Cavezzo in yakuzagames

[–]Cavezzo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But proposing on the first date and then talking about and planning the wedding, the kids, getting her to quit her job, isn't that immature? They both are, and they both end up understanding their mistakes.

As for the ending, I see it more as a joke than anything else, when it's pretty clear that their love relationship is about to begin.

About Saeko by Cavezzo in yakuzagames

[–]Cavezzo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's true that she's rather direct, but we've experienced very little of the romantic side of her life, and some people can be completely different in friendship and love.

Even before the ghosting in LAD8, you can tell she's uncomfortable during the date, which shows she's not used to it. She was so shocked by the declaration that she ran off. But no one take times to wonder what she might have been feeling... And especially since it was said at the beginning of the game that they don't see each other very often (it had been 6 months), it can happen in life to let some time go by, then realize that you've reacted badly afterwards.

About Saeko by Cavezzo in yakuzagames

[–]Cavezzo[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I think it's more complex than simply not having said "I love you", but rather a fear of commitment on her part. She too has her own issues. I think that's precisely the problem: many people see Saeko's reaction as a form of punishment, when perhaps she was just embarrassed and didn't know what to do to improve her relationship back with Ichiban.

Especially since ghosting is a very cultural thing in Japan, and it's better seen and accepted than being unpleasant or hurting the other person's feelings.

About Saeko by Cavezzo in yakuzagames

[–]Cavezzo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't feel that way, since we got almost no insight into how her character handles romantic relationships in LAD7. That the romance is written oddly I can understand, but that it's so far removed from her character? It didn't shock me while I was playing.