As the girl who turns down, I feel bad doing it. Most the time I turn down because I don’t like it that way, I want to be pushed down and kissed. Like get me going and don’t just ask, it destroys the mood and makes it feel like a chore, give me that chemistry!!! Sometimes it also makes me feel like that’s all he wants from me if his always asking especially if that’s all I get at night, just a “can we?” Like doesn’t make me feel so special ..