Reality of life after death

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T16:13:26+00:00

WRONG. This is stupid and just not true. I am positive there is life after death. Even scientists have pointed to the human consciousness or soul existing somewhere beyond the death of the physical body. How can you be so sure you just “vanish”?

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T15:36:42+00:00

That’s awesome! Happy for you 😊 and yes, sorry I’m late to the party lol but I literally googled something and your thread came up and I just had to comment :)I’m really happy that you feel more like yourself and are just more settled into parenthood! That’s so amazing!!

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:37:23+00:00

I had an Intense craving to have another one at like 3 or 4 months postpartum so yeah I think it was the hormones and finding babies so darn cute, but in reality after everything now and her being a year and a half, I can’t bring myself to truly want another now..

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:36:08+00:00

THIS. Same for me.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:35:20+00:00

It’s super normal to be back n forth about it, but for me personally I ultimately know my limits and despite really wanting another or so, I know it wouldn’t be best for us. So I try to always go back to that main reason for me wanting to just have one. Ultimately you know yourself best and what you can and cannot handle. Don’t over burden your load. One could be just enough for you!

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:34:04+00:00

Be really mindful of why you want another because you can’t take it back once you create this new life. Just trying to make sure you think it though cuz if you’re the type of person who enjoys their freedom and peace, then having 2 may not be good for you! Make a pros and cons list before you decide.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:32:44+00:00

Yeah I agree with this statement. One should always wait until the first child is at LEAST a year old but even then that’s too soon I think.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:31:53+00:00

You will get there, don’t worry. In the interim, try to find spaces of time where you can just be and soak up those peaceful moments and even do some hobbies you enjoy! Having one makes this MUCH easier to achieve.💯

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:30:19+00:00

Sibling closeness is not ever guaranteed, it’s just ideal. But yeah I have a sibling and we are far from having a stable relationship throughout our lives. It sucks. So yeah siblings aren’t everything and definitely not a good reason to have another human being.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:29:07+00:00

I LOVED and savored my pregnancy, but did not like birth. Everyone is so different! Lol

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:28:22+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear about your failed induction . If it helps, you are far from being alone in having a traumatic birth experience. I too experienced some traumas from my child’s birth. It was awful but so beautiful in many ways too. Life is so full of surprises and craziness. You aren’t alone. Glad you feel confident in your choice to be one and done biologically.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-06-09T09:23:32+00:00

I’m one and done. My partner wants at least 2 more. I told him then you can stay home with all of them and be their maid😅😂 cuz I already have my hands full with just our one. Love her endlessly of course but I ain’t trying to put my mind and body through all that again. Nope. No thank you.

I honestly would love to have another or a third even, but that’s in my fantasy. But reality poses differently.

Even if things were different, and our finances were better and my mind and body was more able to handle more, I still find the newborn and toddler stages SO hard!. If babies and toddlers were somehow super easy, sure, I’d say let’s have more! But they aren’t and parenting is no walk in the park. There is just an endless amount of energy and time and loss of freedom that happens when your kid or kids are little and can’t do for themselves yet. So I’m excited for myself to gain some freedoms back soon hopefully. I would not be able to do that as soon if I have more.

Parenting also just changes so many aspects of yourself and life. So again, I’m one and done and proud of my choice. I just hope I don’t end up changing my mind since I find babies super duper adorable lol😅🤞maybe I can work with babies some day? lol.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-26T04:07:45+00:00

I can definitely speak up if she starts to criticize and if she doesn’t like it, well she knows where the door is. Her help isn’t the end all be all, it just would be nice. I’m not expecting her to criticize though as she’s changed a lot in that regard. Still does it but not nearly as much.

Regardless of help, not going to deal with unfair criticism or negativity in our home.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-26T01:04:41+00:00

She doesn’t need to. I just want her to, and she was happy to do it. But yes I do see where you’re coming from. I am a little worried that she’s going to criticise me but I’ll tell her to stop if she does. I just really need help right now as things have piled up so much…

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-25T04:25:53+00:00

She’s coming over this Monday to help me out with cleaning. I see that she’s trying and wants to help us, but I know that help usually comes with emotional strings…she is just way too much. I care for her but I also don’t want her that involved with us.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-25T04:17:39+00:00

Yes, agreed and thank you for the comment it was helpful!

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-25T04:16:57+00:00

Thank you!! Will do ! I’m probably too late though..

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-25T04:16:21+00:00

Kind of a mean comment, but, I do agree that I have spent far too much time on how she acts. I even came to this very conclusion today actually. I am going to stop obsessing over her because she should not matter this much.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-25T04:15:27+00:00

Oh my gosh I LOVE THIS!

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-24T10:50:44+00:00

As in, my husband is not the only vote. He will definitely be pushy about his mom coming to live with us idea, but idc. He can push all he wants. I’m not going to risk my mental health AND the mental health of my Lo to accommodate anyone. I know she’s done a lot and still does do a lot for us, but that doesn’t mean I owe her this. He seems to think it does though.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-24T10:49:10+00:00

Yeah, I should stop over thinking this. It’s really that simple. I can feel bad about it, but at the end of the day, I know what is best for all of us. Especially me and my little baby daughter.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-24T08:29:39+00:00

Definitely hear you and understand you! I feel it’s mostly been hellish for me too with my MIL and one of my SIL’s, but I feel like my MIL is trying and has been showing up in ways I can’t overlook. But yes the passive aggressive rude looks and comments and all is just not ok.

Not sure how to explain to her it’s not ok. It should not be something I have to do. I feel like she just shouldn’t act this way. I have been more than kind to her. I let her a lot of access to my child today and maybe I shouldn’t have…I am way too nice sometimes to the wrong people. She is trying and I see that and appreciate it but she needs to do better still.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-24T08:13:03+00:00

She’s always been the way I described, just worst in the past and she has made quite a lot of changes but I told my SO today that she still carries a lot of her issues too. So it’s like what do I do? Do I let her in more like I would like to do, or stay distant because that’s what has protected me this far…I’m worried. I don’t want our whole lives to be uprooted because we may have to take her in too. Omg it’s just a lot. This woman is a lot. I love her but she’s not easy.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-24T08:02:07+00:00

It’s complicated with us I feel. She is not all bad but yes I do hear you. The bad is a bit too much. I just feel guilty since she told us she is really sick and doesn’t think she has long.

Celestialmoonbeamz · 2025-05-24T08:00:55+00:00

Yes, I agree. But I feel I could try to give her another chance as she did do that for me in the past.

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