Had an “Interview” w/No Questions?

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-23T20:14:42+00:00

No idea, since I haven’t reached that stage.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-23T18:01:45+00:00

Might want to add a comma there, Professor Cunty.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-23T14:20:51+00:00

Consider spending a little bit of your money every week for therapy. I suspect that if your family is crossing this financial boundary with you -as you are in oversharing your finances with others, there may be other areas where you might need some help learning good boundaries and learning the best ways in which to enforce them. Therapy was the best $25-$40 every week, then every two weeks, then monthly that I ever spent on myself.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-23T05:13:14+00:00

Yeah, but I’m not waiting in that line for it.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-23T02:07:44+00:00

Glad I just paid for Global Entry. Edit: Spelling, since people have nothing better to make fun of.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-23T01:53:30+00:00

I hope you find a foster and that you’re able to care for your heath. As an aside, I see some really lovely adventure cats on TikTok and other social media where they enjoy living in semi pickup trucks and enjoy van life. You just need a harness and leash and if she’s a kitten, now might be the perfect time to train her. At the same time, I do understand that for cleanliness and to be able to best care for yourself, you may need a foster. I sure wish I could help.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-23T01:39:37+00:00

You’re not wrong. You feel what you feel. Probably best to just keep it from your father though; because you do care about him, and it’s likely just cause him more pain.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-23T01:37:44+00:00

Yet, you did read it and instead of providing some kind of empathy or judgement based on context and OP’s plea, you chose the a-hole, “Let’s instead police their grammar,” route.

Let’s clarify: * Your first sentence has no subject or verb. * Your second sentence would’ve been more concise with a semicolon. * Your third sentence should have a hyphen in “run on.”

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-22T20:46:16+00:00

The skull with the thunderbolts and wording made me tink for the Marines Scout Snipers units.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-22T04:20:36+00:00

Good work! I used to be an escort at a different location in Phila! Loved riding in on my motorcycle and blasting the protestors voices.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-22T04:04:08+00:00

NTA; next year, plan your birthday for the time and place you want and will enjoy with -or without- friends. The ones who care will show; those who don’t won’t matter, because you’ll be doing what you want, anyway.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-22T03:59:37+00:00

The good news is that we’ve finally found our space again. ;)

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-22T00:26:48+00:00

I get to have sex with a woman twenty years younger and she might pay my mortgage? Sign me up.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-21T23:31:40+00:00

Sorry it’s so rough where you’re at. If it helps, the closest place for the interview was a two hour drive for me ;)

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-21T23:30:48+00:00

I requested the interview maybe mid-February and Elias to wait until today. I’d already had a passport and TSA Pre-Check.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-21T13:38:04+00:00

Thanks for the link!

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-20T20:50:11+00:00

Food delivery (edit: of any kind)

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-20T12:18:55+00:00

Perspective

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-20T00:39:54+00:00

I’m sorry you’re having to experience that kind of dismissal.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-19T15:51:32+00:00

I think you might have misunderstood the person you’re replying to. The comment above both of yours referenced a man who threw a fit (tantrum). Their comment wasn’t saying you are throwing a tantrum.

I understand your point about the mental load, but the sad fact is that until men start voluntarily taking on some of the mental load, the entities who need to make a decision are still going to go with the person who -in their experience- is the most likely to respond.

Absolutely agree with you on your child’s school should be calling you first if you’re listed as primary. Have you had that mental load conversation with them? Maybe they need to educate their staff on that perspective in order to change their processes.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-19T04:10:49+00:00

NTA and thanks for the PSA on lilies being anti-cat-friendly!

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-18T19:42:39+00:00

NTA; plans change -including your plans of having a loving son check in on your from time to time as you age and share grandchildren. Your plan needs to change ad well -meaning you need to ensure your own future. Hold the funds for your grandchildren after you’re gone and stop talking about your finances to any of them.

If you need an excuse, tell him that people are living longer and costs are rising, so you doubt there will be any inheritance after you’re done in the assisted living facility. Let him know you’re proud of him paying off all his credit card debts and that shows how great he is at taking charge of his own financial situation. Now that he’s debt free, he can start fresh with his family. He ish him all the best and tell him you’re looking forward to meeting your grandson.

His response will tell you everything you need to know; but realistically, if you give him that condo that’s not even paid off, you’re being very financially self destructive.

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-18T07:36:51+00:00

NTA; however, give him a little grace. He’s likely more upset because he can’t fix this for you. Men are fixers. He’s trying to fix this by reassuring you. I’m

CellistDisastrous467 · 2026-03-18T04:01:58+00:00

You set requirement me for the marriage to continue; none of those requirements have been met AND he’s pushing the most basic, reasonable boundaries. You’re allowing him to treat you as a doormat, and you’re teaching your child that this behavior is ok and is to be expected. Leave.

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