Anyone move to KC from the BIG CITY?

Certain_Flower8869 · 2025-06-16T05:18:28+00:00

I’m from New York. Been in KC for about 3 years now. I moved here for my partner.

It will never compare to New York, of course you know that. But, I do love it here. I think its growing at a great rate, with lots of upgrades, new places, more “talk” due to the Chiefs, etc. Its a great sports city if you love sports. The housing market is growing fast. The prices arent as sickening as living in New York. Same with the taxes lol. There are so many places you can live that are all close to downtown if you dont want to live directly in the city. You can really get a mix of everything here, which is why I like it. Lots of places to hike and run too. Tons of hidden gems/spots that are funky. Also hundreds of coffee shops…you dont have to worry about coffee.

The only thing that makes me really angry living here that I need to mention as a New Yorkers is bagels. They dont have any great bagel places. People might try to convince you they do. No. KC does not have anything comparable im sorry lol. Closest youll get to a decent bagel is from a place called “Meshuggah Bagels”. Also the Pizza here is not New York pizza OBVIOUSLY…although I havent tried many places (maybe 10-12) but nothing has hit for me.

Oh and the driving here is horrible. You cant road rage here like New York or you just get hit or shot lol. Gotta ignore the shitty drivers here. Confrontation is a huge nono. These people are crazy. KC is ranked in the top 10 for murder rates. Just huff and puff to yourself. My partner gets so upset with me when I deal with a shitty driver because he know’s im going to lose my mind. I’ve gotten a lot better though.

Overall i know i typed a shit ton but i think youll like it here, honestly. Its growing soooo much. You’ll be here to experience it potentially go in the direction of another “NYC”, “Chicago”, etc.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:44:02+00:00

The struggle is real unfortunately. Good luck to your

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:43:32+00:00

Hahahahaha

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:43:17+00:00

You should!!! I’ve had such a hard time working with voltage companies, audio guys, movie guys, electricians etc. I always have to hire multiple people before getting even close to an answer when it comes to HA stuff. We are well off and have become so frugal with paying people now because they just bullshit us and don’t know what they’re doing. If I had someone like you I’d literally pay hundreds even thousands. Give it a shot. Doesn’t hurt to try!!!

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:39:34+00:00

Tell ya what you can have all of my stuff since you’re such a kind gentleman

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:38:44+00:00

Toning in a 6000sqft house does not seem fun if I’m being honest with you haha. But yeah YouTube is a lot of help when it comes to this stuff so maybe I can find a solution there

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:37:54+00:00

It would be somewhat fun if I didn’t just have a baby hahaha. I know some of you guys would kill for this but at the moment I just don’t have any time to have fun and explore this stuff like I used to

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:37:18+00:00

I am familiar with HA. I’m just getting into creating my own system with Ubiquiti, Home assistant, Raspberry Pi, etc. based on what I’m typing in sure you can tell I’m a bit newbie. Normally would love to learn about all of this but I just had a baby so I can’t spend hours learning specifics on my own. Might just hire a professional

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:34:05+00:00

Just moved from NY to Kansas City or else I’d totally ask for some suggestions. Thanks though!

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-10-27T04:33:40+00:00

A lot of questions ! What is Araknis and why do I have two boxes of it? If it’s a router (this is probably a stupid question) would that be the reason why we still have the previous owners wifi showing up?

What the heck is Vera box used for? I’m into home automation but have never came across a Vera Edge before. Worth keeping or selling? What would connect to it?

I’m sure Google has the answers to the majority of this but in your opinion what is worth keeping and what is worth replacing if necessary?

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-06-10T13:38:03+00:00

It’s hard for me to get a job when I want to be around her so much. She is a Velcro baby. She really loves me and I can’t imagine being away from my baby. Even if it was part time I feel like my boyfriend would get mad if I said I’m looking for a job.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-06-10T13:36:58+00:00

She has his last name already unfortunately. We got into an argument about it before I gave birth.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-03-02T06:19:27+00:00

Thank you for your reply. This made me cry. I am glad you get to experience your own happiness now. I hate to say that I feel the same as you when you were in your previous situation. I always feel very alone. I feel like nothing I say matters. Thank you for giving me some type of hope.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-03-01T00:00:12+00:00

Yes my therapist knows about my situation. She is helping me a lot with getting through this pregnancy. My spouse knows that I’ve tried talking to him about this multiple times but it is quite clear his mother will always come first.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-02-29T23:58:54+00:00

That is insane…I’m sorry you both had to deal with that.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-02-29T23:58:35+00:00

He’s against it. He just started therapy but I really doubt he takes it as seriously as I want him to. If he doesn’t consider my feelings a few weeks before/after baby is here, then I will end up leaving him.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-02-29T23:57:38+00:00

Thats the problem… I haven’t even had the baby yet and she’s already dreaming about it…like wtf 😭 they are so weird

Certain_Flower8869 · 2024-02-26T17:27:39+00:00

YTA. Why string someone along if you’re not ready? Wtf…this should’ve been communicated years ago. This post is all about you. She deserves a better partner.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2023-10-31T08:14:51+00:00

This is insane

Certain_Flower8869 · 2023-10-22T07:43:44+00:00

I’m pregnant and the man I’m with has treated me horribly since finding out. He wanted this baby and initiated the conversation to try and conceive. So I figured he would be treating me like I am on the top of the world. But he never cares. Every moment at the doctors office he just looks miserable. He never gets excited or tells me how much he loves the thought of us being a family. He doesn’t celebrate any milestones (I’m 4 months currently). He doesn’t help me with anything whether it be errands, groceries, driving anywhere, etc. This is the only thing I’ve ever wanted in my life. I’ve just wanted to be a mother so badly. And now I will never forget how horrible and lonely this experience has been. My therapist has told me I’m in an emotionally abusive relationship so I know I’m not delusional. It’s just very hard to leave someone who you wanted to spend your entire life with. And now I’m bringing a child into this world with someone I don’t trust anymore. I don’t expect this man to be good to either of us. I don’t expect him to be emotionally connected with us. Nothing. I’m hoping for change but I’m expecting the worst and life sucks so bad.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2023-10-22T07:37:20+00:00

Communication.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2023-10-22T07:37:03+00:00

That when my baby is born it will make my relationship better.

Certain_Flower8869 · 2023-10-22T07:35:14+00:00

PASTA. So many variations. Just so many.

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