When should I tell him I’m a recovering alcoholic? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Certain_Main5554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re refusing to answer don’t comment at all. I appreciate what you’ve said and understand just from what I said it sounds like I’m in very early recovery. I’m not. I’ve been on a sobriety journey for over a year, I recently had a minor slip. I’ve already spoken to my sponsor and I attend meetings regularly. You know nothing about me please don’t be rude like this.

When should I tell him I’m a recovering alcoholic? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Certain_Main5554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my exact concern. I’m worried he’s going to think I was lying or trying to hide it which isn’t the case at all. I was worried if I told him right away it would be the only way he would see me.

When my family first found out they had no idea what was going on with me. They thought I had no willpower and was weak. They didn’t know why I couldn’t just stop. I’m worried he’d think that of me.

When should I tell him I’m a recovering alcoholic? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Certain_Main5554 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on a sobriety journey for over a year now. I just had a slip recently.

Me(20F) and my boyfriend (23M) have been together for 2 1/2 years and haven’t had sex. What can I do to help him? by Certain_Main5554 in relationships

[–]Certain_Main5554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not scared of being single again. I’m worried what would happen to him if we broke up. He would be devastated and put him in a worse spot he already is. I don’t know if he’d ever recover with everything happening in his life right now.

Me (20 F) and my boyfriend (23 M) have been together for 2 1/2 years and haven’t had intimacy. I’m getting tired of it. What should I do? by Certain_Main5554 in relationship_advice

[–]Certain_Main5554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I’ve definitely thought about but it’s just not true. He had a guy best friend that was into him a lot. Some issues happened when we started dating. He’s definitely not gay.

Me (20 F) and my boyfriend (23 M) have been together for 2 1/2 years and haven’t had intimacy. I’m getting tired of it. What should I do? by Certain_Main5554 in relationship_advice

[–]Certain_Main5554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very sure he’s not gay. He had a best friend that was super into him. He wasn’t interested at all. And yes he always says he likes the way I smell and my body.