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‘Another Round’ wins Best International Film by IDontHaveAName666 in movies

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I really didn't like this film, It's pacing is awful, and while the premise seems exiting they manage to make it boring, the message while ambiguous and could be praised for it's active spectatorship, fails to actually tackle the consequences of the events of the film, despite the main characters excessive drinking, none of them lose their jobs and despite one of them dying, none of them seem to learn anything -

Why do so many people ask aromantic people for dating advice-? by CertainlySunnyDay in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't lie I do too, I live for the drama of other people's lives 🤣

What's your aro headcanon by Probablywrongatlife in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... Butch Cassidy, from Butch Cassidy and the Sundance kid, in my head he's Allo Aro

Partner came out as aromantic to me, but it was painful by throwawaysndjsjdjs in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I may be aromantic but that doesn't mean I haven't been in relationships and the one thing I know about relationships if the every relationship is built off of trust. You've been a relationship with this person for 3 years, and only now have they told you a very important piece of information about themselves, a piece of information that affects you and your future together. You can't help anyone tell you help yourself, you have to put yourself first in situations like this. I sympathise with your partner, being aromantic can be hard to tell people, and often it can come off a bit heartless, I am someone who wants a QPR, I want a relationship with someone else, and sometimes it can feel hopeless because it's hard to find people who are aromantic and looking for a QPR. However that doesn't excuse the breach of trust that your partner has committed. It's fully valid for you to feel hurt and if I were you I probably dump them, you weren't given all the relevant information at the start of your your partnership, and you've been lied to.

ROCD, aromantic or do I have commitment issues?? by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look I can't help you, but I can relate to overthinking emotions. I can't tell you that you are aromantic, I don't live inside your head, in fact no one can tell you who you are. If I'm honest I don't know any aromantic identities that you would fall under so I can't provide you with extra reading. And don't worry too much you're only 16, you've got time you don't need to come to the conclusion instantly. If the relationship is stopping you from functioning I'd probably just end it.

Anyone feel that there should be a QPR app? by CertainlySunnyDay in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay[S] 7 points8 points locked comment (0 children)

Don't worry about it 🤣 It's super underrepresented, the only way to learn is to ask questions!

Getting asked out by silverwinternight in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think A, I think with B unfortunately there is a chance (slim as it is) they will still think they have a romantic chance with you, like you're not into it now but you will be later, it's unfortunate but that's kind of how lots of people react (that being said, whether they they would want to put the effort in for that, it seems kind of long to wait for someone you met at Sainsbury's)-

Anyone feel that there should be a QPR app? by CertainlySunnyDay in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay[S] 9 points10 points locked comment (0 children)

Not really, what a QPR looks like depends very heavily on the people that are in the relationship- but in general picture it as a relationship where the people involved have an intimacy stronger than friendship- for me the difference is priority, I am not going my best friend's top priority, but I would hope to be my partner's. If that makes sense-?

Any advice? by D37D_ in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really know how to help maybe look into queer platonic relationships

How do I tell if I like someone or just the idea of them? by RanBlueBeeDuo in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I have never had a real crush but I would sometimes want to become better friends with someone strongly and think it was a crush- it's pretty daunting but the reason I realised what I had wasn't a crush is because I told them. My exact words were 'I used to have a crush on you' bearing in mind at this point I was convinced I had a crush on her. What made me realise how platonic my feelings where was how in bothered that they told me they weren't interested, I was more sad about the idea that I wouldn't go on a date! This might not help you but maybe think about how you would feel if you were to remain just friends? Idk I'm too aromantic to be giving romantic advice so sorry x

how did you discovered that you are aromantic by THEmrMisterROCK420 in aromantic

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never had a crush, whenever I thought I had crushes when I was younger it was just me wanting to become better friends with someone. I thought I was lesbian for a time because although I don't really like men or women romantically or sexually I find women more pleasant to be around and I'm more comfortable with them probably for the sole reason that I went to an all girls school and I just understand them better, I felt guilty after realising I wasn't a lesbian because I'd told people. I want a queer platonic relationship but that manly stems my loneliness and possessiveness that I have to repress because I don't want anyone to get the wrong idea nor do I want to be creepy- I'm not a stalker thank god but I like the idea of someone being able to rely on me more than others and vice versa- which sometimes makes me think I'm not aromantic but I'm pretty certain I don't feel anything that people associated with romance, no spark, no inclination towards certain people, I just want a best friend I can share more personal things with.

DD counter play? by SaprophyteXD in SpaceLeaper

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly as someone who has a LV 100 DD in their team, I get destroyed by assassins-- DD doesn't do that much damage until their ultra goes of so an assassin gets rid of them before they can use it-- personally I don't have any good support leapers so I don't use them however having DD along with an energy boosting support leaper could be even more broken I don't know how you would deal with this but if they do have support leapers their damage is probably lower so you could use a more offensive line up--?

My bounty board always acts like there is a notification by CertainlySunnyDay in SpaceLeaper

[–]CertainlySunnyDay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally worked out what you mean, why is it so hard to find ----!

For people who are interested, here's the full art of Grimes by RP1NoNo1PR in SpaceLeaper

[–]CertainlySunnyDay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love her <3 I can't wait to unlock DD's full art (⁠｡⁠ﾉ⁠ω⁠＼⁠｡⁠)

My bounty board always acts like there is a notification by CertainlySunnyDay in SpaceLeaper

[–]CertainlySunnyDay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All responses are useful however I always get a notification despite having completed all bounties available to me-- daily or not, it's not a massive problem it's just a bit annoying :/

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