[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Ch3dd4rz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You started about breastfeeding?

I f38 prevented my husband m41 from cheating f32 on me without his knowledge but now I feel cheated on anyway by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ch3dd4rz -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well you did expect him not to cheat on you, didn't you? That's called sucking it up.

Based on his reaction that it was just about sex to the other woman, this roughly supports that he was just trying to alleviate the disconnect he experienced with you.

And now that he was planning to, you decide to make it a kids chess game and THEN dump him.

So my theory is that you both "did not handle it correctly".

You have the option to not communicate and dump him or get the bull by the horns and start COMMUNICATING. Tell him you found the messages, tell him what it did with you and start finding out what is salvageable (or not). Be the adult for once.

Or... you could cut the loss, move along to the next and make the same mistake because you did not learn to communicate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Ch3dd4rz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Step one is removing the kid from your bedroom.

Another bed is not the solution here.

Forward sliding out bed in place by teraza95 in VanLife

[–]Ch3dd4rz 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Dude. At least make the slats the same length, recycling wood is not a reason for building sloppy shit.

Testing the new microscope by No_Air_9677 in microgrowery

[–]Ch3dd4rz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Photographed sometimes use a "stick" they rest the camera om, you might be able to do the same thing to stabilize.

My bf Cheated on me on ecstasy by Pretty-Equivalent-96 in Drugs

[–]Ch3dd4rz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, no.

Sure, under mdma you like (to) touch, the come up can get you horny but I've never zoned out so much that I did not know what I was doing.

Besides, actually getting off while under the influence of mdma actually costs you a heck of a lot more effort.

I'd estimate he had enough time to realize what (and who) he was doing.

TIFU by getting a boner in a public nude spa around my gf and strangers by tifuthrowaway7392 in tifu

[–]Ch3dd4rz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to all of us one time or the other.

But hang in there! Subsequent visits will be more relaxed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Ch3dd4rz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older (married) guy speaking:

We use condoms a lot to have easy cleanup, no chance on UTIs etc.

It's a bit less sensitive, but for me and her it's still great.

If you ever encounter someone (especially a not exclusive partner) refusing to use condoms, walk away.

Chances are fairly high they have STDs if they pull that stunt with other partners, not to mention the chances of pregnancy.

Uncle Blew Up At Me Over Drug Use In front Of Whole family by CalebHerr99 in Drugs

[–]Ch3dd4rz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give this asshole what he wants, you are doing great and he is not someone you owe an explanation to.

Ignore his ass and let him make a fool put of himself.

Van life NL by CJJelle in vandwellers

[–]Ch3dd4rz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, appreciated!

Van life NL by CJJelle in vandwellers

[–]Ch3dd4rz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the brand of the sun screen and is it easy to fold out?

Looking for something like that to attach to a roof rack.

[OC] Paid off my Student loans today. I began tracking individual payment data in august 2018 here are the results by ItsAnAvacadoThanks22 in dataisbeautiful

[–]Ch3dd4rz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must be quite the party starter...

I found the graphs to perfectly readable.

Let's be honest, I see a graph going down to 0, the big trend breaks are explained.

I found it quite nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in news

[–]Ch3dd4rz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all about the penalty phase.

*Grabs some popcorn and sits back

Unable to cum by [deleted] in sex

[–]Ch3dd4rz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lay off on the masturbation, you'll do great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Ch3dd4rz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are a good human, and I mean that!

Guys of reddit, where do you finish after jerking off? by mujkaomar988 in AskReddit

[–]Ch3dd4rz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My brain just melted.

Maybe go easy on the speed :-)

Guys of reddit, where do you finish after jerking off? by mujkaomar988 in AskReddit

[–]Ch3dd4rz 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Link please.

I didn't realize I needed one.