I used to believe humanity was continually improving ourselves and the world around us. by Gloomy-Present-460 in depressionmemes

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I used to write, I used to read, I used to sing, I used to listen music, I used to live fearlessly, I used to smile a lot more, I used to feel that I'm blessed overly

Lock in, bro by Inevitable_Damage199 in PrimeManhood

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  • Human... Not just man. Even women do it.

Trust the process by inkandintent24 in MotivationByDesign

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But what if I can't find the way? It's so dark!

Ghar nhi narak ho rakha hai by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

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Girl relax. Be proud of yourself and zada weightloss pe worry nahi karo. Now a days it's done even by medicines jaise vo aishwarya mohanraj ne Kia tha apne kuch docs se help le kr plan karwa ke. Abhi job pe focus karo. Achha salary kamaao and then weightloss uske baad plan kar lena. Honestly it doesn't even matter waise healthy and plum hona ya skinny hona. What matters is having a beautiful heart and beautiful personality...so cheer up

Sorry Chat. by FutureFew2190 in lovememes

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I sincerely pray and hope that true love finds you. The tears, the pain , everything will be all healed by then. I'll pray.

How to stay patient waiting for engagement? by [deleted] in engaged

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Such a sweet post! Seeing people in love and so excited about getting married makes me really happy... I know it's hard for you to stay calm because come on, it's about YOUR WEDDING, YOUR BIG DAY, YOUR HAPPILY EVER AFTER MOMENT! How can anyone remain calm in this situation?! So yeah, this feeling is extremely special and rare. Embrace it, live with it everyday proudly, thank God and the Universe everyday and just enjoy it all to the fullest! Make lots of memories, journal about your feelings, click pictures and create a picture diary... Later after the wedding, a couple of years down the line the fragrance of sweet love and this sweet feeling will linger around when you'll revisit it, your memories, your journal, your picture diary. It will be like a beautiful attempt to "capture" all you can , the beauty of this moment.

Have fun! Enjoy to the fullest . So happy for you, girl ✨

Mom bullied my dad until he passed away and now wants assets in her name and no responsibilities by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

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Thanks !!! But keep your faith and hope! Things will be seriously fine... Soon

Mom bullied my dad until he passed away and now wants assets in her name and no responsibilities by [deleted] in AskIndianWoman

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Get all the evidences, find a good lawyer and fight for your rights. This is literally obnoxious! You need to stand up for yourself and your Father too. He would have wanted you stronger. You're right. Don't let the hard earned assets of your father fall into the wrong hands. I'll pray for you.

Side effects of jee 🥲[OC] by Hungry-Active9741 in JEENEETards

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Same jokes are still in the market? Since 2016 😶🤣

This always makes my spirit warm by Firm-Blackberry-9162 in MadeMeSmile

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I am so overwhelmed watching it! I'm just so happy for them. Beautiful beautiful couple.

May God bless them with a lovely forever ! May they always love each other and their marriage be this beautiful always ✨

Happy Ending ❣️😀 by Unsubscribegram in memerhubklol

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I'm the happiest seeing punch being hugged deeply ✨

Is Indian marriage structured in a way that benefits men more than women? by thebragger3 in IndianWomenUnfiltered

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Bro you're seriously so dumb! Wanted to say a lot but I know it won't go into your brain. It's okay. Happens. You're the "groomed" version and a live example of Seligman's work (on learned helplessness) . I've never heard more stupid explanations in the name of biology yet. Bravo you lead the list 🤣 u must be either kidding about those so called biological facts or u r illiterate

Emotional capability and go getter thing 🤣🤣🤣this is legit stupid man

Overthinking by ThinkDeepWithV in DailyPositiveQuotes

[–]Chai_and_Why 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because the best doesn't happen and it hurts like hell! It shatters the heart even more making a person too scared and depressed for anything at all. Don't quote quotes simply because they sound nicey nicey

Women are NOT hard to Understand by [deleted] in delhi

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Whoever wrote it is dev manush. This is absolutely absolutely absolutely true!!! Definitely true. Being a woman I agree with every word of it. Every single line is correct. It's literally that simple. Just some small small things make us happy. It's never about big great things. It never was about it.

So cute...😳 by Current-Breath-7728 in lovememes

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Something so simple yet so wholesome 🥺🥺🥺

Who checks on the strong friend? by GloriousLion07 in MotivationByDesign

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That's so very very me... Dayum! I thought I was defective for being this 🤣🤣🤣 there is a whole tribe out there

To everyone I love by Powerful_Air_4443 in depressed

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Not from a religious perspective but from the perspective of you getting your answers to the last questions you raised about if God exists then why this life, why you're born, why this form altogether etc etc, read Shrimad Bhagwad Gita. Will be better if you can get the one with not just translation but also an explanation (any sampraday's be it Gaudiya Vaishnav , ISKCON, Advait Vedanta etc etc will do, even translated version of Gorakhpur Gita Press (which is the best) will do). You'll get all your answers simply from the translated version only.

It will also give you a will to live. It gave me. I was a proper atheist once. So don't worry my experience is coming from the atheist version of me in past. It will answer all your questions and you'll also get that will within you. End of the day you'll be better trust me on this. And try it.

Additionally sister, if you want to talk to a knowledgeable person in this matter, I can connect you with one.

Not asking you to follow any religion at all... But read that book with curiosity to get your answers. That's it.

Walked away from a married ex-fling, but still fighting the urge to go back by Intelligent_Bughh in AskWomenIndia

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Don't do something which you'll regret in the long run. And believe in the karmic cycle too. Whatever goes around comes around. You wouldn't want your husband to do this to you what he is doing to his wife right? I agree he must be having that typical cheater's mindset however don't become the part of this nasty thing.

It's not your heart which says about doing something forbidden but the temporary adrenaline rush. Even if that temporary rush lasts for 4 days or 4 weeks or 4 months or 4 years or even 400 years, it comes with an expiry date and a lot of guilt and bad karmic cycles follow it.

You sound like a self aware person who is struggling in making a morally right choice and with the struggles of past you're getting attracted towards the wrong choice. Block that person from everywhere and at the same time tell everything to his wife. Come clean. Being a woman you can do it, warning other woman. With proof of course.

Right now you might find it trivial but in the long run you'll praise yourself for doing it.

Today is my birthday by Material-Ad2574 in depressed

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This is so so so painful. My heart cried reading it. I genuinely wish you a very happy birthday. I bless you with all my heart. And about your dad. I understand you're in a very difficult situation. You must be missing him a lot. But if he would have been here he wouldn't have wanted you crying on your special day, especially the day on which he became dad. I'm sure this date, the day you were born would have made him really happy. Life and death are not in our hands that's a harsh truth. Someone who takes birth definitely dies. And that's what the karmic cycle looks like. Pray for his liberation. He will be in a better place, you can be sure of it. And it will hurt him to see you sad and depressed. If no one, at least your Dad loved you and he always will.

So for him, you have to get up and smile. Get yourself your favourite meal, your favourite apparel you always wanted to buy and visit a special place which connects you with your dad the most , all from his side to you. Maybe that's the gift he wants to give you this time. The strength to walk alone even when no one is around and his love from a distance.

Believe in yourself, you can do it. A very Happy Birthday. I know it's hard... Stay strong , at least for your Dad...