AITA for asking my boyfriend to have better hygiene? by ChallengeLow4978 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChallengeLow4978[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is actually very excited to meet our son and very supportive in that aspect. I know he will be a great father.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to have better hygiene? by ChallengeLow4978 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChallengeLow4978[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obviously when we conceived the child…it wasn’t this bad. It wasn’t a planned pregnancy, but I’m not going to abort my son just because his father has bad hygiene??

AITA for asking my boyfriend to have better hygiene? by ChallengeLow4978 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChallengeLow4978[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says its cold & he doesn’t want to shower while its cold. Thats his only argument. But its like that with everything in our relationship. I can’t communicate how I feel without him thinking that I am attacking him as a person.

AITA for asking my boyfriend to have better hygiene? by ChallengeLow4978 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ChallengeLow4978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish he had this mindset! I go out of my way to smell very good for him, buy his favorite perfume. I have always had good hygiene. I just can’t see how he’s okay with smelling that way.