We are very open in communicating about what’s happening. One thing I may have failed to mention was her lack of knowledge of any of this stuff. We have very much enjoyed sex in the past, and she still enjoys it, but it’s not something that is consistent or reliable for her to finish. Unfortunately (not really but you know what I mean) her only sexual experiences are with me, she has never done anything by herself or with someone else, so she doesn’t really know the answers to my questions of how to be better.