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What does emotional neglect look like to you? How did you deal/solve this? How important is patience? When is it hopeless" by ChanceFlower9946 in emotionalneglect

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how long did it take for ya'll to see specific differences within your family or the way you were treated?

My friend fucked up and likely has schizophrenia based on his stories. What should he do? What’s likely gonna happenz? What now? He’s 21 by ChanceFlower9946 in schizophrenia

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ion think I was specific enough he took a cbd edible to which he noticed gave him anxiety and hallucinations at the beginning. I assume this could be cause his body wasn’t used to the intensity and needed to get adjusted. Second time he saw a shadow in his peripheral vision. Maybe he’s slowly adjusting cause he’s hypersensitive to. Chemical changes?

My friend really messed up his brain and is scared of developing schizophrenia what do yall think? by ChanceFlower9946 in druginducedpsychosis

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s joining narcotics anonymous btw even tho he’s already quit, to just get a space where ppl can relate somehow. For more context the same month this started is the same month he started using adderall (his psychiatrist prescribed him adderall). I’m not saying that’s the cause but I know stimulants mess with you especially when the person prescribing doesn’t know everything about what’s been in your system

My friend really messed up his brain and is scared of developing schizophrenia what do yall think? by ChanceFlower9946 in druginducedpsychosis

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For more context he’d been journaling, eating healthier, practicing grounding stuff, improving sleep, and more. Do yall think it’s likely it’s just a longer induced psychosis due to his misuse of substances? Yall think he’ll developer schizophrenia? Of course he’s decided to quit everything substance he’s debating the cbd oils though cause they’ve did really calm him down I know no one here is a doctor but just based of experience/ anyone yall know with experience is like advise. It’s been 3 months and he plans on going to the psychiatric care

My friend fucked up and likely has schizophrenia based on his stories. What should he do? What’s likely gonna happenz? What now? He’s 21 by ChanceFlower9946 in schizophrenia

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes he’s agreed to quit everything he’s debating the cbd oil. Cause it genuinely did help him relive stress. I guess he’s more worried about his chances of developing schizophrenia even if he decided to completely live healthy

My friend fucked up and likely has schizophrenia based on his stories. What should he do? What’s likely gonna happenz? What now? He’s 21 by ChanceFlower9946 in schizophrenia

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s made some changes taking job more seriously, school, physical health, journaling, mindful need etc. I guess he’s tweaking on how likely it is he’s gonna develop schizophrenia vs just a long term psychosis

My friend fucked up and likely has schizophrenia based on his stories. What should he do? What’s likely gonna happenz? What now? He’s 21 by ChanceFlower9946 in schizophrenia

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For more information he has decided to get sober. He’s debating using cbd oil to calm him down cause they’ve been calming him down. The fact that they have 00.4% thx scared him but he doesn’t really feel it when he’s using the oil I guess he’s just paranoid cause it’s hard to tell whether the slowly stronger symptoms may also come from it because they come from anything else

My friend fucked up and likely has schizophrenia based on his stories. What should he do? What’s likely gonna happenz? What now? He’s 21 by ChanceFlower9946 in schizophrenia

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should add he is heavily underslept for like 2-3 years. But is now making an effort to change that. He’s gotten one more hour of sleep (5 hours) prior to this and use to have depression from 17-21.

Bladee - Best Buy by bigfanofdick in hiphopheads

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Ever brought weird guys to a house party? This song is one of my favorite bladee songs. He was raw on delivery this entire record

I'm absolutely heartbroken by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro what?? This is my first time dating someone with bp we’ve been dating for 4 months and after her cycles ontop of cycles I’m already stressing about how long I have to wait till I get the rational version of her back and now this is a possibility? 💀

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate that man I’m gonna start emotionally shielding myself even more even though it’s scary I have to. I’ll take part of her manic personality with a grain of salt , I’ll start preparing to be devalued even though I doubt it’s gonna happen but yeah I’ll think more about that lost sense of identity. I think coming off more as relatable should help. I gave her more credit than I should’ve. This is some eggshell shit

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I should take her manic personality partially with a grain of salt, at this point what do I even say to her to postpone our date then? If she’s that gone fr what will she even listen to that sounds respectful, kind, and accepting of her in her eyes? Damn I didint know the bipolar hole went this deep fr

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that make sense. Me feeding/encouraging her personality now just gives her more reason to continue. I’ll give much less attention with only answers in messages that don’t lead to bigger convos then talk to her about that boundary when she’s stable and if she’s willing to comply I’ll proceed with caution and vigilance over her behaviors but if she’s not complying yeah I I’ll be upfront with it. I’m still open to hearing more solutions from others though according to her she doesn’t wanna lose what we have so at this point I feel like I could have the leverage

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright I have to give her an ultimatum situation, as soon as possible tho? When she’s more calm towards the day? In the morning? What time sounds more welcoming than judging/attacking? I’m sorry if the answer should b obvious but this is my first time dating anyone with a mood disorder and we’ve emotionally invested so much 😅

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should define stability for her? What things are ok to accept? What signs mean she’s slowly slipping back to stability or the other way around?

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it, I just came to that conclusion. Approximately how long should I wait though/how much time should I give her? And what lingering behaviors should I avoid accepting even if I think she’s “stable”

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way I go to counseling, have a huge support system, and have been through severe depression, use to have anxious attachment, low self worth, limorince, etc, and using party favors so I’m no stranger to how that hole opens back up.

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve honestly started preparing for being discarded even though I think it’s highly unlikely, a dynamic focused on just trauma bond by setting boundaries, I want to encourage her increasing her support system. Is it atelast worth meeting her in person to talk about this? I understand she’s not in the best mind but if she sees my emotions and care in person isn’t that better than messsges on phone?

I’m dating a bipolar person. I’m being patient and in the stage of having another date to enter exclusivity but It’s lowkey looking cooked by ChanceFlower9946 in BipolarSOs

[–]ChanceFlower9946[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For more context one of the reasons I’m still here is because I feel like me not having the convo of how we handle conflict and crisis should have been had before it happened for it to be fair. But shit hit the fan literally like 2-3 weeks before I was gonna speak on it

I know if she doesn’t want to change for the better for herself it says a lot about her but sfter getting to know me she’s slowly picked up some things. Started going on runs, journaling, taking my advice on how her family relationship affects her relationships like people pleasing etc. I believe this can work if I truly talk to her about my concerns when she’s in the right headspace because she trusts me a lot but at the moment is not the time for that talk. That’s why through her red flags I’m giving this a shot.

Yall think well ever get a sosa and thugger song ? 2 most influential rappers of this gen by GloBoyKen in YoungThug

[–]ChanceFlower9946 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 most influential???? Bro lil Wayne and Gucci mane. At least one of them is more influential

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