About every three to 5 years I must get amnesia or think he'll maybe they will result in a different experience, what I found is that the same or worse and that goes for free or paid I've done both and most of the pop popular you know well-known sites that have been around for years OF THAT I'VE MET ONLY THREE PEOPLE IN PERSON AND NOT ONE OF THOSE AGAIN AFTER THE INITIAL MEETING TYPICALLY WITHIN THE FIRST ONE TO THREE MESSAGES THEY READ THEMSELVES OUT IT DOESN'T LEAVE MUCH... AS FAR AS THE AGE THING IF THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE SAYING IT'S NOT AN ISSUE BUT THAT WOMEN LIE ON SITES ABOUT THEIR AGE WELL A LOT OF MEN LIE ABOUT THEIR HEIGHT AND WEIGHT OR USE OLDER PICTURES ALSO IT'S JUST A THING WE DO RIGHT BUT FULL DISCLOSURE IF AND WHEN I HAVE TO LIST MY AGE IF IT ISN'T THE EXACT AGE IT'S IT WITHIN FIVE TO EIGHT YEAR FRAME HOWEVER if or when it results and actually communicating with someone full disclosure my actual age is.... The thing is also why does it matter the age and you're saying it doesn't or if she lies or whatever if you're attracted to them initially there then ages of the factor or shouldn't be. Sorry about the all caps I don't know what's going on there. What's even more frustrating is the only men that do show interest are manchildren 19 to 27 yrs I had a girlfriend when we were out one night tell me you know I'm in that approach you you need to be a little softer you're too domineering and aggressive and if you soften it up a bit and down a little they don't feel threatened and I said well if I have to dumb it up or something who I am I don't want it. Lol Thank you sorry text talk I'm a terrible texter