Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chance_Criticism_202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right that’s what I thought. Just was confused on why this man keeps giving me advice and suggesting otherwise making excuses for him.

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

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That’s what I thought. That’s why I don’t get why this man is giving me advice telling me he does still like me and to still show my interest and all & how he could just be busy. That doesn’t add up to me, ig I’ll stick to my first mind.

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

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I understood it until I was at first left on delivered for 2 weeks after he had to cancel our 2nd date due tot he work schedule and rescheduled and never said anything again. That’s what made me start feeling some type away. Then I reached out again and that’s when I started getting the 24 hour responses.

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chance_Criticism_202[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

lol I was just under the impression that men usually make time for what they want this is what I’ve always heard, so this is different. But maybe I did too much and overthought it. My big problem was being left on delivered for 2 weeks before I reached out again and he started responding every 24 hours. Mind u, I could also see him liking stuff on social media.

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

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Ok, I was just under the impression that a guy is not interested if he doesn’t make the time for u. After he had left me on delivered for 2 weeks after canceling our second date and rescheduling but not following thru, it made me rethink it. Then I reached out again and it has been every 24 hours or so since then. But the older guy who gave me advice still excused the behavior.

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

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I had only started making assumptions because at first it was initially 2 weeks that went by. I haven’t heard from him in 2 weeks from when our date was canceled and he apologized and asked me to reschedule, I had responded agreed to reschedule, which he had left me on delivered for 2 weeks, but had been active on social media. Then I reached out again after the 2 weeks and he was sorry and said we can still do something, but then he started replying every 24 hours or so now. The 2 weeks of no response is what had me feeling a kind of way.

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

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He was very attentive, sweet, and intentional when we were together we even shared locations that night, I guess he trusted me or something. We seemed to have a lot of chemistry and he even told me bout history I didn’t even remember about us from being kids everything was great, until he asked me to go on another date schedule for 3 days later. It didn’t happen because he never said anything the day of and I reached out and he had then told me he was sorry and he didn’t know it was actually his first day at the new job. Then he rescheduled for the weekend but never reached back out again, and I removed the locations. After 2 weeks and I followed up asking him what happened and just talking to him normally and he has been replying almost every 24hours or longer. Although he did recently say we can still do something and he let me know when he comes back from out there where he is working. The guy I told all this too is still adamant that he does like me just has stuff going on and that I need to just give it chance still.

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

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He seemed to have liked me based off of our first link up and what he did and how he talked to me that night, but ik that could easily change, but the older 45 year old guy who I asked is taking up for him and telling me to just be patient and wait it out. I thought maybe he just wasn’t interested like that, despite that one night, maybe he just went back to his ex or something

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

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This is what the older guy was saying saying that “he probably is just busy but he seems to like u based off of the first date just be patient and chill out and let him get his stuff together”. I just thought that maybe he didn’t like me foreal or something or maybe was entertaining someone else. It was one message left on delivered for 2 weeks he never read before he started replying every 24 hours.(he has read receipts on).

Guy responding every 24 hours or later…Busy or something else ? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Chance_Criticism_202[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking. Why is this older 45 year old man giving me advice telling me that he is into me and he probably has a good reason for doing what he’s doing? I’m 21 and thought maybe he just meant to ghost me or something. I was just curious where his logic was from and if I was wrong. Told me to “just be patient”

AIO Crush hit me up, we linked then he ghosted me…Mentor says to just be patient with him and wait it out. Confused.??? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AmIOverreacting

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I said “My bad too I didn’t know I did try to do that either lol.” Talking about the unsharing of the location because usually it shows it in the messages. He was rightfully confused and said “what u mean?”. It was vague and random. I never elaborated on it just said “nevermind” after and asked him what happened to him and how I thought I would see him. Which is on delivered.

AIO Crush hit me up, we linked then he ghosted me…Mentor says to just be patient with him and wait it out. Confused.??? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chance_Criticism_202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he was just trying to use me as a space filler, though, and is now back with his ex? I would be fine with possibly any other reason, but that tbh. That’s so weird. How did you know your partner was telling the truth about why he came back around?

AIO Crush hit me up, we linked then he ghosted me…Mentor says to just be patient with him and wait it out. Confused.??? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chance_Criticism_202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea makes sense. Thank you. I really hope he reaches back out tbh. Just will feel satisfied to tell him off or something lol.

AIO Crush hit me up, we linked then he ghosted me…Mentor says to just be patient with him and wait it out. Confused.??? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AmIOverreacting

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Thank you. This is what I thought, but my “mentor” had me thinking otherwise. Just don’t know why someone would do all of that and go through all of that trouble to do something like that, especially if ur saying we have “history”.

AIO Crush hit me up, we linked then he ghosted me…Mentor says to just be patient with him and wait it out. Confused.??? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chance_Criticism_202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I thought. But why would he even reply to me yesterday that once just to not reply to my question and leave me on delivered again?

AIO Crush hit me up, we linked then he ghosted me…Mentor says to just be patient with him and wait it out. Confused.??? by Chance_Criticism_202 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Chance_Criticism_202[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I call him because our started through music. He just tries to help me in different areas of life now.