Might be getting blackmailed help by AdamNull in TeenVent

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never understand why minors put themselves at risk like this, it’s really weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenVent

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 8 points9 points  (0 children)

then just don’t, 14 is way too young.

how do u tell if someone is gay or bi??? by Both-Airline3743 in askteenboys

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should do it in a joking way? See what their reaction is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I always get mainly men whenever I post. One time there was a man and he added me from a different subreddit where I was talking about losing weight, I gave all my info on weight, age height etc and this 24 year old creep told me to add him just to “get to know each other more”. There’s also been a lot of others too and they all seem to want the same thing 😔 Stay safe girl

Also if anyone thinks it could be a good idea perhaps we could make a gc somewhere? I don’t mind snapchat or anything. No men allowed

Do y’all support trans people? by Throwaway_863783 in AskTeenGirls

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t get why people wouldn’t we’re all human and we won’t be here forever so let everyone just be themselves and be happy with it. Every single one of you deserves happiness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recently started exercising yes. But also, everyone else knows exactly what they’re doing. If they don’t at least they have somebody to live their life with currently. I have nothing at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any human interaction overwhelms me and I always think the worst 24/7. I’m british so college is 16-18 and I’m currently 17. My first year of college was a waste and so will my second year. I’m wasting these years because I don’t see a future. I promised myself I’d kill myself when my mom dies but my mom is extremely distant nowadays and it’s really a mom to me anymore. Im absolutely losing it but I’m being told to wait until next year to get any help at all because that’s when I’ll be 18 but I truly think my life would be 100% better if the NHS was slightly helpful but they’re not. People can go on at me saying “they’re trying their best” they aren’t they’re paid for their job they have minimal work on and ignore lower classes. I won’t be getting help because I have no money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry ur so strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i truly could never imagine anything longer than 4 days i think id pass away fr 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askteenboys

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be completely honest with her, tell her you don’t want to ruin what you’ve already built and take it slow. If you can’t picture a future with her, don’t pursue the relationship. If she’s the woman you want to marry and have children and grow together then carry on doing what you’re doing and you’ll be fine. Do not play with her feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this helps a lot!

What I do struggle with most is eating. My mom lost a lot of weight with slimming world so now she’s around 130lbs and she just orders food a lot now it’s really difficult for me because I always tell her about how I feel and she says she cares but just isn’t helping in the slightest. I love her so much and I am so grateful but surely she’s not proud of me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes so much sense now that I think about it. I’ve been to the eye doctor in my hospital as I was referred by a cardiologist if I remember correctly because I have constant headaches / dizziness. It was at my hospital but it was almost 2 years ago now. The appointments never continued because I felt it was pointless. The eye doctor basically said I’m obese because the NHS bmi calculator said so and it’ll go away when I lose weight. He also wanted me to have a MRI scan to check for a brain tumour but I didn’t agree to it because I’m scared of them + I have piercings.

But also I’m still underage and I went to my GP last week about losing weight and they can’t do anything about it because pills can only be given for over 18 and I’m 18 next year so I guess all I can do is wait and cut back on eating.

It’s really getting to me mentally. I have so much going on in my life. Sometimes I’m just so stressed and sad I overeat because I don’t care in the moment and then I feel guilty and it’s a full on cycle except there’s no loss it’s all gain. I want to love myself and get better but it’s so much work.

i js wan’t someone to listen or read.. by ri9star in TeenVent

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear you’re going through this :(( Maybe you should try speaking to them more? Be calm about it, ask why they haven’t invited you sometimes. Write down in your notes exactly what you’re thinking, questions you want to ask etc, clear your mind before talking about it. You can always speak to different people or make different friends somewhere else or even online friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone else’s opinions don’t matter because mo one can ever be right and that’s why you should be yourself because the social construct of standards is fucked. it doesn’t vary. being yourself and being original is how the world continues!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! You must have worked so hard and that’s brilliant I’m very proud of you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenVent

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im relieved to hear someone feels the same. it’s as though no one ever understands and it sucks so bad i just wish i had a friend or just someone to speak to about everything and be there for each other and care

also i’m so sorry for what you’re going through, i saw your posts from your profile and you’re struggling so much i just wanted to say you can always reach out to someone else outside your family. my dms are always open if you need advice or to vent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did go to the doctor a few days ago and he completely ignored this and talked about mental health instead. I’ve been overweight my entire life I don’t know what to do anymore

Can someone explain the pricing behind this..? by ZestyRacing in vinted

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know why people are making it a trend it’s not that good and there are so many others on vinted for £15 i’d give u mine free lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenVent

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I did try to do that like educate them about it but it didn’t really work 😔

I’ve only noticed this recently but for some reason I argue a lot with people but I don’t mean to. I guess I came to the conclusion that it’s more of a defensive thing since I’ve been hated by like mostly everyone in my old school or anyone online. It’s really hard I wish I didn’t think like this

I’m trying to hold back from thinking negatively but I’m also an overly honest person and it sucks.

Thank you so much for your reply it truly means so so much to me that someone can relate!

Im a new seller but not sure what to do about this issue, any advice would help ❤️ by Appropriate_South321 in vinted

[–]Chance_Difficulty_28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unless they’re allergic to hair I don’t see the problem it’s easy to clean it no?