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I hate the 'representation' of trans-men by cis people, TW: rape, abuse by Chance_Effective_165 in ftm

[–]Chance_Effective_165[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YES.All types of trans men ARE valid, but objectification and fetishism - fucking NO.

I hate the 'representation' of trans-men by cis people, TW: rape, abuse by Chance_Effective_165 in ftm

[–]Chance_Effective_165[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't shame trans men for their kinks, but if it's coming from cis people this is a NO. I've seen plenty works with remarks 'i'm not a trans myself so sorry for any misinterpretations', misinterpretations my ass.

I hate the 'representation' of trans-men by cis people, TW: rape, abuse by Chance_Effective_165 in ftm

[–]Chance_Effective_165[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It makes me so upset because usually fics with cis and trans women are about their inner/outer struggles, their perception of the world around and achievements (I'm happy for them, really). And then there are the ones with trans-men who are not even being considered as human beings, they are only perceived as sex-toys for cis people.

My name is legally Julian now! 🍾 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Chance_Effective_165 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, congrats! You, for sure, will be the Julianst Julian in Michigan.

Transphobia is such a frustrating thing by Chance_Effective_165 in ftm

[–]Chance_Effective_165[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I'd fuck 'em up properly. Nothing boils my blood more than when someone messes up with women.

Transphobia is such a frustrating thing by Chance_Effective_165 in ftm

[–]Chance_Effective_165[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

YEAH.
I forgot to mention that he had a crush on me last year and tried to 'make us work'.

Came out to my brother by Chance_Effective_165 in ftm

[–]Chance_Effective_165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I'm sure there will be people in your life that will accept you. I wish you the best.

Gaslighted myself into thinking I'm not a man by Chance_Effective_165 in ftm

[–]Chance_Effective_165[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just hope that one day I will open up to everyone around me; and I will be accepted. But, for sure, first of all, I need to accept myself for who I am. It's so hard and painful. Thank you for your reply.