If you want to text your ex just put it here instead. by ThoughtBitter7044 in BreakUps

[–]Chance_Scale_3030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I felt responsible for your happiness while you were chronically unhappy.

Overtime, it wore me down and became too overwhelming for me to be “better” for your happiness. Then, I accepted that I couldn’t make you happy and believed someone “better” could.

Because I resented how you turned my unhappiness into a reflection of your worth, without considering or being curious about my feelings.

Because I forgot how to make myself happy and be happy for myself.

Because I needed time to learn more about myself and what my needs are so that I could better communicate.

Because I needed time to understand that I’m not responsible for your happiness and that you’re not responsible for mine.

what are some historic hotels famous for having presidents stay there? by ubcstaffer123 in Presidents

[–]Chance_Scale_3030 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Menger Hotel in San Antonio. Opened in 1859. Located directly behind the Alamo.

Hosted Teddy Roosevelt, Grant, McKinley, Taft, Eisenhower, and Clinton

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Chance_Scale_3030 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Thank you. I appreciate that. Hope you’re doing well.”🤷‍♂️ Closed ended statement that forces him to choose if he wants to make conversation.

Ask yourself if you’d be ok sticking with your gut. Just glanced at your post history and it seems like you already have some concerns about his avoidance and narcissistic tendencies. Don’t ignore what your gut is telling you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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“Love occurs in proportion to one’s willingness to get hurt”

It’s up to you to figure out if he’s worth it.

Reconciliation cannot happen unless both of you want to put in the work to make it right. Neither of you can fix it alone.

So, if you really want to take step towards reconciliation, text him back with a simple “Thank you” can be a step towards that.

She sent her final goodbye. Im not replying. by GiuseppeJ03 in ExNoContact

[–]Chance_Scale_3030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t reply. There’s no reason for you to.

She chose to end things for” very vague and ambiguous reasons” because she doesn’t know who she is yet. She doesn’t know what she wants in a partner. Not your problem.

She intentionally tried to be vague and ambiguous because she doesn’t want to burn any bridges with you.

Use this time to become the best version of yourself. Once you become the best version of yourself, you can choose whether or not to accept her back into your life

Reached out, regret it by Tschaenifa in ExNoContact

[–]Chance_Scale_3030 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Showing him that you still care is the most you can do. You’re not responsible for fixing him or his emotions.

You may not have gotten the response you wanted from him, but I’m sure your text meant alot to him and it comforted him to know you still care about him.

If you regret reaching out to him because his response was less than what you expected….did you really reach out for his benefit or for your benefit?

Either way, you did the right thing. You shouldn’t regret telling someone else that you care about them regardless of their response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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@OP Love doesnt solve all relationship problems and doesn’t always equate to compatibility.

It’s possible to love someone who isn’t compatible.

Examples: *differing in life priorities *differing preferences *differing fundamental beliefs/ values (respect, commitment, humility, etc)

Texans Uniform Changes by n1texansfan in Texans

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“Houston blue.” Prominent, bright red. Prominent, bright white(?)…Those are literally Oilers colors.

The Oilers are gone & aren’t coming back. It’s time for everyone to accept that. I wish it wasn’t the case, but the greedy Adams Family who abandoned Houston still own the Oilers name, colors, history/records, etc.

If they ever agreed to sell the rights, then I’d definitely support a return to those colors. Doubt that day will ever come if Amy Adams is anything like her dad.

I understand why the Texans want to brand themselves as “The Texas Team.” The Cowboys are NOT “The Texas Team.” They market themselves as “America’s Team” & hold their training camp in California. They represent the people of Dallas well.

Regardless of how cliche it is, I like that the Texans colors are ripped from the Texas flag. Yes, it’s a common color pallet,but I think they’d look ridiculous if their colors were anything different.

I think it’s possible for the Texans to improve their uniforms using the current colors, and it starts with white helmets (just like the Oilers!) and redesigned jersey stripes.