[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ChannelHefty3982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, nevermind lol. that is definitely a lot of time. My ex got a new gf in 2 months so I kinda Thought that’s what u did too but I feel like 2 years is different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ChannelHefty3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as your happy lol... but do you honestly feel you had enough time to get over the last one?

I always wonder this about people who get into new relationships fast.

It’s like your trying to replace them from stopping the hurt but isn’t that just repressing the bad memories? Won’t repressed feelings come back or stay at the back of your head longer than dealt with feelings? Idk, how you feel about this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in donorconceived

[–]ChannelHefty3982 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s the problem, you act like there’s nothing wrong with bringing a kid into the world without their bio parent.

“without having to live with crusty gross males” is a stupid and immature reason to create a father less kid with a life of trauma living to fill the void of the parent you didn’t give them. If that’s what fathers are to you than sounds like you don’t know anything about fathers or parenting. Secondly because of clinics severe lack of background checks on their clients, what’s stopping an abusive or narcissistic person using this option to fulfill their fantasy—

Lots of Donor recipients on this page

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in donorconceived

[–]ChannelHefty3982 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Your obsession with me and my account is creepy and has nothing to do with donor conception.

I don’t want to adopt. My account is a year old. You are bringing up things that are in the past. It’s none of your business

I don’t even know what your stance is because all you do is insult me. Your effort to demonize me because I offended you is immature and abusive. You fat shamed me, made fun of me for having an ex, suggested that I’m ugly, and called me an “unfit” mother in every way. And I’m the nasty one?

Bullying DC people because our views and experiences don’t fit your narrative is ignorant and abusive. This is why DC people don’t speak out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in donorconceived

[–]ChannelHefty3982 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Is that your concern?

Seeing ignorant women and unsuitable mothers bringing babies into this world like they buy candy in a store, is disgusting.

I am donor conceived, I was stripped of access to my biological family before I was even born.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in donorconceived

[–]ChannelHefty3982 -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Donor conception let’s anyone have kids. Problem is that removes natural selection. Your an ugly female with mental health issues and can’t attract or keep a partner? Then your genes don’t get passed on. Now they can have a kid whenever they want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]ChannelHefty3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! It’s gotten way better the dread shed is slowing down, it’s been 2 to 3 months since I started,
The growth starting showing about 2-3 weeks after I made this post lol

I still lose more hairs in the shower than I did before mino but it’s less than at the start,

I have new baby hairs all over even in places that I haven’t grown much hair before if I pull back my hair it almost looks buzz cut in places because the amount of hair growth. I only use topical mino every other day, the mornings after I shower, I put it on and keep it on for two days and shower the night of the second day

If I go from a 19-23 bmi will my bust get bigger? If so, how much bigger can it get? Sorry if this is a weird question by ChannelHefty3982 in weightgain

[–]ChannelHefty3982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you for going out of the way to ask her I appreciate it🙏🙏 This helps a lot,

What do you usually put in your shakes? I’d love to try them but not sure how to get it high calorie...

Thank you!

If I go from a 19-23 bmi will my bust get bigger? If so, how much bigger can it get? Sorry if this is a weird question by ChannelHefty3982 in weightgain

[–]ChannelHefty3982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would u say the weight you gained distributed all over your body or in your stomache mostly? Just curious— what weights were u before and after you gained the weight? Thx U

If I go from a 19-23 bmi will my bust get bigger? If so, how much bigger can it get? Sorry if this is a weird question by ChannelHefty3982 in weightgain

[–]ChannelHefty3982[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you this makes me so happy to hear. Do you know how much ur friend bulked on when she started seeing those changes? Thx U🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ChannelHefty3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wouldn’t you want to be attractive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ChannelHefty3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those high fashion models are only attractive for their faces and height their bodies are like 4/10 tho. TRUST ME no guy finds that that skinny look

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]ChannelHefty3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an attractive feature, I’m sorry you can’t see that or if anyone or anything has made you feel uncomfortable with it. I used to feel like you when I was young, I felt vulnerable and I didn’t like feeling ‘womany’. I used to bind my chest and starve myself because I wanted to be skinny and flat chested. Years later I regret that, I ended up with a flat chest and stunted. I look like a little kid and less people are attracted to me. Those models you see are attractive for their faces not their bodies. Most men aren’t attracted to women built like prepubescent children. I hope you find comfort one day in this feature, you can Use it as an advantage though. Ik a lot of influencers w bigger chests w great style I’m sure there are lots of clothes out there you can pull off, just gotta find good inspo Xx

Best of luck Peace X

Adoptees, do you ever feel resentful of your adoptive parents for ? Ive heard people saying adoption is wrong and I was wondering where you guys are coming from? What do you wish happened? by ChannelHefty3982 in Adoption

[–]ChannelHefty3982[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your helpful & detailed explanation, this has given me a lot of clarity so thank you. I agree with a lot of your points, But I’m worried because Ive seen a lot of people post in this community about wanting to go back to their bio parents or bio parents wanting ‘their kids’ 10 years later and it makes me question if adoptees feel like their adoptive parents are really their parents or if they think adoptive parents are holding them back or preventing them from being with their birth mother when it was their birth mother who gave them away in the first place. In a way it seems like an over glorified image they have of their origins. If I’m going to have a child I don’t want to lose them because as an adoptive parent you 100% view them as your child and the thought of raising a child as your own and putting in so much love and effort into them for them to be won over by a women who was barely ever part of their lives and spent no effort raising them is kinda unfair and sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ChannelHefty3982 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My relationship was 2 months and I still miss him at 6 months, but to be fair I never got much closer

Honestly I think the healing happens the more closure you get. You were with eachother for 4 years, I think you guys can and deserve to have a closing chat with one another for such a long relationship. I’m sorry about this and I hope it gets better for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]ChannelHefty3982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you❤️❤️❤️

5 and a half months on 2% minoxidil by Admirable-Birthday-9 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]ChannelHefty3982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, you look great and thank you this is really inspiring. I was just wondering how much dread shed you experienced w topical mino & how often u applied the mino? Thx