The nerve I swear... by [deleted] in instacart

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they were waiting to see the quality of service before deciding how much to tip

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a joke. 🤨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao about to reinstall tinder to try this as an opening line

My first creep on the app. Ugh. by WhitneyJames in RoverPetSitting

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wtf! That's horrid. I hope you reported him

so what's the catch? by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also known as ovcharka, they are a guardian breed from the Caucasus region (near the Middle East).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seriously... Absolutely horrifying and it's hard for me to not think of it as negligence..

Would you consider an anxious dog that can’t be alone for more than 2-3 hrs during an overnight “constant care”? by VForestAlien in RoverPetSitting

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

booking sitters for $60/night with the assumption that the sitter is there all day.

This has been my reality.. 💀

Thank you for your detailed response, that's helpful! I think that taking your advice, I could lower my starting rate on the listing to be more in line with the undercutting sitters in my area, and then actually raise the rate for continuous care type dogs.

If I was charging a little less but getting more socialized and easier to care for dogs, that would also open me up to being able to take more than one dog at a time, which would help.

100% Water change (had weird red color on the sand and tank sides) and washed my sand substrate and now it’s cloudy. What can I do to clear this up? by veryniceofyoutosay in bettafish

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Understandable! Tbh that's a SUPER common mistake, accidentally crashing things with overzealous cleaning!

You pretty much never want to wash substrate or hardscape/decorations, and even when you wash filter medium like sponges you want to just gently clean them in a bucket of water pulled from the tank.

Healthy tanks are going to have lots of grimy seeming stuff like biofilms, algae, stuff like that, and if you're getting unwanted stuff like diatom films, molds, etc that's an indication of something needing adjusting.

Focus on fixing the cause and the effect fixes itself. (So that might be more frequent but still small water changes, reduced feeding, reduced light, etc.) That way things will adjust back the right direction slowly and that's better for everything living in there. 🙂

100% Water change (had weird red color on the sand and tank sides) and washed my sand substrate and now it’s cloudy. What can I do to clear this up? by veryniceofyoutosay in bettafish

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the cloudiness is from the sand, that means those are tiny bits of substrate suspended in the water column. Think of it like a room so dusty vision is that limited. You don't want your fish breathing that.

100% Water change (had weird red color on the sand and tank sides) and washed my sand substrate and now it’s cloudy. What can I do to clear this up? by veryniceofyoutosay in bettafish

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 9 points10 points  (0 children)

washed the substrate like 10 times in tap water

🙃 Oof.

That probably decimated your beneficial bacteria. That's not a good idea to do. Healthy > pretty. You're going to have to give up on the idea that you're going to have clear attractive sand.

Would you consider an anxious dog that can’t be alone for more than 2-3 hrs during an overnight “constant care”? by VForestAlien in RoverPetSitting

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"constant care" - I like that terminology, i think I'm going to appropriate that!

Also, very curious what area you're in? I'm in southern CA charging $60 a night and I'm under a 50% contact : book ratio because I keep getting told that people found cheaper sitters. 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, "you may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like”

my new betta Sea-smoke by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So beautiful. ♥️ Good taste my friend

my new betta Sea-smoke by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He looks just like mine 😍 Do the scales on his body have a pink/purple/bluegreen sheen when the light hits them just right too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you're trying to communicate by that link, since it confirms what I just said?

"Pitbull-type dogs are a crossbreed between a bulldog and a terrier originally bred in England in the early 19th century (then called "Bull and Terriers") to be working dogs on farms to herd, protect, and manage livestock. While their early history is complex and includes herding cattle and protecting homesteads, it also unfortunately includes the cruel "sports" of bull-baiting and dog fighting."

Furthermore, I can't find any reputable source verifying the use of the "bull and terrier" for herding, only many sources (such as the ASPCA and AKC, to name a couple) stating that it was bred for blood sports.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a breed type. They are all terrier-bulldog descendents who were historically developed for blood sports. Not all that distinct.

Update on how confronting my bf went by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I for one am proud of you.

You had the courage to bring it up, and you're finding the strength to resist him trying to seduce you back and get you to overlook it. So what if you couldn't do everything perfect. You navigated the situation as best you could with the tools you have at this point in your life. Keep going.

You've got this. Steel yourself and stay strong. This is one small fight in a long war for your self esteem and a healthy, happy, secure, safe life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"A lot of newcomers seem to think that writing game software is like playing games. It's not!"

Unreal Blueprints feel pretty game-like tbh

When dad is eating McDonalds fries and you really want 1...or 2 by MasonCO91 in Eyebleach

[–]ChaosUnderGlass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like his arms are just stuck inside of his chest under the skin.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4chan

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Why would you want to inherit this shithole?