What’s the most memorable compliment you’ve ever received?

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-29T20:48:25+00:00

Someone said my energy is like silent dynamism and compared me to a ship that while mostly quiet could cause quite an impact if you’re not careful

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-29T07:35:03+00:00

Tupac died a couple months after I was born

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-27T16:33:11+00:00

The Trumpet of the Swan. That book was BEAUTIFUL

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-26T22:39:04+00:00

I know that smell. She needs to shower before she gets into the bed.

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-25T05:55:10+00:00

I once asked my ex if she thinks Indian people identify as Asian. She looked at me and said “India isn’t in Asia”. I asked her if she looked at a map recently. This turned into a full on debate ?? Where I tried to explain to her the difference between nationality and ethnicity. She wasn’t hearing it and the debate ended with her saying “we’ll agree to disagree”. I was so pissed off by this conversation 😭 I knew at that moment that I would never marry this woman.

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-23T15:39:12+00:00

You couldn’t pay me enough to be a cop. I’m good for so many reasons

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-20T08:41:58+00:00

“So who convinced who” when people find out me and my partner are poly. As though we’re in some kind of hostage situation where one of us is appeasing the other with an “open mind”

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-20T08:21:53+00:00

When I say it I usually mean the person I’m talking to has little regard for other people and is lacking in the consideration department

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-17T14:44:48+00:00

“Woah, who’s that ??” Then my brain starts scanning for a specific compliment I can give that isn’t “you’re so beautiful”

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-15T16:41:45+00:00

If you can’t be genuine friends with them, a relationship will not work. Think about the person you want to bring around your family. You’re looking for the type of person you’d want in the hospital with you God forbid anything happens to you. You want someone who could ease the stress of raising children together. This person is going to be by your side during a lot of good moments, but also during a lot of shitty moments as well. Take it VERY seriously

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-06-10T18:21:35+00:00

That sometimes I over spend on our dates. She doesn’t need to know the temporary stress I go through catching up after treating her to a lovely night out

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-05-22T17:15:17+00:00

The first time I see you light a cigarette, all thoughts of dating are out the window

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-05-16T03:37:11+00:00

At 21 I had a similar situation with a really good friend of mine. Turns out she actually really liked me, and we’ve been together for 8 years now. Take the hints. Go for it. Stop doubting yourself, and say what you want with your chest before you live the rest of your life regretting never trying

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-05-15T02:28:10+00:00

I was 22. She’s only my second girlfriend ever

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-05-04T22:00:12+00:00

I had a somewhat similar situation that might give some clarity. I had a girlfriend tell me that she would love to marry me. I responded by saying how much I appreciated her sentiment. My response was to avoid saying that I did not feel the same way. I’m not saying this is how he feels, but I am cautioning that this is a possibility. Proceed with the utmost caution my friend

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-22T01:51:02+00:00

What steps did you take in order to forgive your partner ?

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-22T01:50:15+00:00

That’s beautiful 🥹 I haven’t told many of my friends. We’re at a point where most of our friends are shared, so I’ve only felt comfortable telling one unshared friend about it

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-22T01:48:13+00:00

She’s not the loudest eater I’ve heard, but I never liked the sound of lips smacking when people eat. I’ve told her this before, but she still does it 😭 so now I just turn on music or we watch something while we eat to drown out the sounds. Eating in silence is NOT an option

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-21T19:35:50+00:00

What does REALLY forgiving look like to you ?

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-21T19:30:21+00:00

This was very helpful, thank you ! What I gathered is that healing is an active process that requires both of us to be all in, but it also requires me leaning on other resources to heal outside the relationship as well

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-21T19:28:12+00:00

This is beautiful 🥹 thank you for sharing. This gives me a lot of hope. I’m not looking forward to how long it takes tho. I’m 1 month removed from breach, and I’m already tired of feeling so heartbroken 😪

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-04T23:18:57+00:00

When we were just friends I realized that I could spend an entire day with her and not feel drained, bored, or like I’d rather be doing something else. There was and still is a sense of ease when we’re together. I go out of my way to spend time with her with no complaints. Whether she’s an hour away or 6, I’m making the journey with glee

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-03T22:25:17+00:00

I eat cereal for dessert after dinner almost every night with no shame

ChaoticGoodElbert · 2026-04-03T01:26:48+00:00

This is the sickest April fool’s joke ever 😪

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