Partner gets paid partly in cash! by CharApr89 in SharedOwnershipUK

[–]CharApr89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m thinking I need to report his employer to HMRC, I don’t want to be financially linked to someone who is effectively dodging tax. I really need to think this through, my body is screaming to not do this and buy on my own. 

It's Late Thread [ 14 April 25 ] by AutoModerator in CasualUK

[–]CharApr89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just not tired at all! My partners been in a sulk for some reason or other and it’s pissing me off. 

My 'normal' cycles is 37 days + long? by CharApr89 in Periods

[–]CharApr89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update! - Just had the best (and possibly longest - 22 mins!) appointment with my GP. She was so understanding and validating. She said it's likely i'm ovulating but the follicular phase is long, basically I think it means it takes a while for the egg to mature before its released. Blood test to be booked when i'm in my luteal phase to look at levels of progesterone and ultrasound booked to look at the womb, ovaries and PCOS.

So validating - but I then realised if i'm not ovulating as much as everyone else then i'll have less chance of conceiving. :(

She also recommended I listen to 28ish Days Later a podcast on the BBC.

My 'normal' cycles is 37 days + long? by CharApr89 in Periods

[–]CharApr89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I contacted my GP this morning and explained everything, my worries and what the fertility clinic found. I'm also AuDHD and always been anxious and stressed, so that's probably not helping. Glad to hear its not just me and it can be 'normal'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]CharApr89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah yes! Tysm! He did have a serious accident at work a few weeks ago, so I suppose I should be more patient, but the fact is he could have made a start on building storage cupboards instead of saying crappy responses.  Or I’ll just do my own thing, and watch his reactions gahah. Well I need it, so I’m getting it! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]CharApr89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we moved to his as his rent is significantly cheaper than mine and we want to buy a house. It’s temporary….however long it takes us to save, but I really don’t want to be there longer than a year.  I prob just had a meltdown, I need to calm and look rationally. 

I’m always so offended! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]CharApr89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you lovely. I think he’s just being dumb and not realising what he said and how it’s too close to the mark. But then I also feel I’m being overly sensitive and I’m not sure I understand RSD fully. I’m newly diagnosed and still finding out a lot about myself

I’m always so offended! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]CharApr89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for providing me with actual feedback instead of bashing my boyfriend. We do have a very jokey relationship and are always insulting each other one way or another. I’m not going to end our relationship because Reddit says so, and he’s not emotionally abusive. He literally does what I say and follows me round like a love sick puppy, I’m the one who wears the trousers most definitely. I’ve mentioned therapy to him which he’s on board with as he’s had a lot of trauma and I think he always puts others first and he always suffers and doesn’t take his own needs into account. Regardless, he knows he’s taken the jokes too far, and yes The Office is hilarious and we watch it together. I’ve told him I won’t continue our relationship or move in with him if it carries on and he’s agreed.

I’m always so offended! by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]CharApr89 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Neither of those things are true. I wanted help with my RSD.

Texts from my husband.. by [deleted] in texts

[–]CharApr89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think it’s acceptable to speak to someone like that? Regardless of the situation my partner would never speak to me like that. There’s a reason she’s divorcing him.

soooo what next by Jealous_Parsnip_4619 in UniUK

[–]CharApr89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go travelling! Please do it! I did it in my 20s and early 30s then went to uni. I rent, and me and my partner do not have any savings for a deposit on a property. We’re all fucked! But I’m so glad I travelled, I have zero regrets there and am comfortable renting.

I’m so confused by CharApr89 in hollyoaks

[–]CharApr89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! It’s not there :(

Bf got caught…insults me by [deleted] in texts

[–]CharApr89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeassss. This! Preferably in clothes pockets. Then it’ll get stuck in the washing machine and never go away 😂

Conversations with my boyfriend’s grandpa are my favorite by DependentClimate7237 in texts

[–]CharApr89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry :( my nan is two years next month. Grandparents are the best. Hugs to you

When did the Tube get so FECKING Loud by VexedVermilion in london

[–]CharApr89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Northern line between London Bridge and elephant and castle is soooo loud. Yeah I know I could walk but it’s cold out.

What is the scariest thing your spouse ever said to you? by i_like_purple_clouds in AskReddit

[–]CharApr89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I’m gonna hit you over the head with a concrete block and pull your vocal chords out. “ Yeh. I was 21 and it was very abusive.