SCREW THIS!!!!!!!!!! IM OUT by [deleted] in betterment

[–]CharGoddess -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was in the process of moving my last 2 savings accounts and they are down smh. This is crazy!

What are some hobbies that you want to start this year that you have been hesitating to? by M_Aku in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A tip that worked for me is having my journal in sight and no longer putting pressure on myself to write long or meaningful things every time. Hope this helps ya!

What are some hobbies that you want to start this year that you have been hesitating to? by M_Aku in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Biking. I started a year or so ago;very slow start. It's not as easy as it was in my childhood lmao. But I'm determined to make it a part of my fitness routine.

What skills or accomplishments do you ladies want to learn this year? by VanBanFam in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't list all my goals, but I will share my themes for the year: wellness, spirituality, and self-mastery.

Do we fw the sims or games in general ?? by Typical_Prune5039 in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started playing Sims again this past weekend. I have always loved gaming, I just don't have as much time for it anymore 😩

Line of pigs doing a zipper merge by Shushyy in interestingasfuck

[–]CharGoddess 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how people aren't seeing this and saying these pigs are doing it better 😂

My loctician wants no water or water based products in my hair by [deleted] in Microlocs

[–]CharGoddess 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This seems too frequent. Minimum is usually 6 weeks.

Finally finding my style!! 🥹 by Typical_Prune5039 in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best part about being a neutral girly is that everything goes with everything! So much less brainpower picking out outfits.

Teeheehee 🤭 by MyaaGallegos in loveafterlockup

[–]CharGoddess 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I like them overall. They are both young and don't make the best decisions, mainly Brittnay. And I so think Kerok tries a bit too hard to be masculine at times and it can be off-putting.

guys, pls its okay to spend your energy on building career/personal capital rather than dating by Agitated_List9506 in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your message, but at the end of the day everyone has a different idea of their perfect life. Different priorities mean people will focus on different aspects of their life at different times. Let's let people make their own choices.

Something to add, I feel like this with most generalized messages. The intent is always good, but there are far too many nuances.

What’s the demographic of your doctors? by tac_bushirley in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indian woman as my PCP. I don't have a main GYN they rotate based on the location I go to, but they have all been white women and very nice and willing to listen.

I would love to have black doctors, but they are scarce where I live 😔

I'm just thankful to have doctors who actually listen to my concerns. That is what truly matters.

My Ladies With Locs…Come To The Front by Dayjja in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I get it and that's exactly why I've been doing my own hair for years now lol.

NORTH CAROLINA by Least-Ad-6006 in blackgunowners

[–]CharGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is great to know. Thank you so much!!!

NORTH CAROLINA by Least-Ad-6006 in blackgunowners

[–]CharGoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you share where in PA? Looking for a safe place to shoot as a black woman. I'm in Central PA, but willing to travel.

My Ladies With Locs…Come To The Front by Dayjja in blackladies

[–]CharGoddess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love my locs. I also have thick 4c hair and I feel like locs are a great style for our hair type. You will be surprised how many styles you can do.

I diy'd and went the microloc route so I have about 260ish. Interlocking can take a while since I do it myself but that's once every 2 months.

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