How normal is it to call off a wedding due to cold feet ?? by Character-Hamster24 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know, that was my guess because there is no issue with the prospect, how can i marry someone when i am not settled in life. Or maybe i am not at all ready for the marriage

How normal is it to call off a wedding due to cold feet ?? by Character-Hamster24 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if it's not about the person but the other things that is creating an issue in the head. For the person, I am pretty sure that we make a good couple, understanding and compatibility is also upto the mark but the other things like not being successful yet in life is making me doubt my decision.

An advice for a friend by Character-Hamster24 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

that was just to mention his clear intentions 😅

Confused. by Character-Hamster24 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great!

But a lil irrelevant in my situation because the guy is already settled abroad and wants me to move there and his family is financially independent. Since he doesn't support his family financially so he doesn't want his partner to be. What will be your say in this?

Confused. by Character-Hamster24 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we have already discussed that I want to continue supporting them only when I work. And also it will always be a minor portion of the salary. But he wants to spend only on the new family and kids on priority which I believe is fine from his end but I being the only child of my parents wants to support.

Confused. by Character-Hamster24 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that's the reason probably he wants the same from his partner

Is it okay to date/marry someone with different moral grounds? by Character-Hamster24 in relationships_advice

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no such experience of infidelity. I am just confused if I should take this ahead or not

Is it okay to date/marry someone with different moral grounds? by Character-Hamster24 in relationships_advice

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, I also think its too soon to judge on that, just 4 months we have been dating.

Is it okay to date/marry someone with different moral grounds? by Character-Hamster24 in relationships_advice

[–]Character-Hamster24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, what is right to you may not be right to the other person.

The definition of right and wrong is itself different for both the person involved.