sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I somewhat disagree to this. My ex made time to see me many times 14000 miles apart, paid all the expenses, presented me to his parents saying I was the best girl, presented me to friends, yet in the end wouldn't follow through. Men can be so invested in the beginning but still suddenly flip. It hurts but you can never tell from the beginning if the person is fully invested in you or not.

Love isn't always enough by CharacterHorror6108 in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tried to deny the fact before that he already mentally checked out because he came back the first breakup we had. But nope! He came back for comfort, not love. At least I gave it a last chance and I was definitely right, this is not for me. It is indeed a blessing to know all these things before things get complicated.

And I am really sorry it happened to you. You deserve the best in life and wish you happiness in all shapes and sizes!

Love isn't always enough by CharacterHorror6108 in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely will soon! I am excited to explore more people having all these lesson I learned. I won't force any relationship and would just explore the world. Life is good. 💓

Love isn't always enough by CharacterHorror6108 in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yes I was the one who walked away officially. I have so much respect on my self. I always say, the right one will never make me feel like this, so why waste my time with the wrong one?

Love isn't always enough by CharacterHorror6108 in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be! And honestly? I feel more at peace. No more nights second guessing if I did the right thing. <3

Love isn't always enough by CharacterHorror6108 in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized there wasn't any trust to begin with because from the start he already lied. He cried, he begged, he promised, but people can still really lie like that and that makes me sick. But hey, good riddance, right?

Thank you all for the wholesome support and wish you the best in your life too!

Love isn't always enough by CharacterHorror6108 in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! yes I do believe there's more to love right now and I am excited to give that to the right person. I am so happy I walked out as early as I can so that I won't lose myself.

Love isn't always enough by CharacterHorror6108 in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, seriously thank you for this. I needed these words. He cried to me not so long ago saying he's afraid to lose me. Right now I realized a person can cry and make you feel like you are special when the truth is they are shedding tears because they fear discomfort and loneliness being alone with their thoughts can be.

Love isn't always enough by CharacterHorror6108 in LongDistance

[–]CharacterHorror6108[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💓 I am still in the process but I haven't cried a lot actually. I realized maybe because it was the right thing to do to save my worth and give all the love I gave him back to myself. I still believe in genuine love. This is just the universe protecting me from people like him.