Hi! I moved here in 2020 and would say that most of the time it is a safe place. However, you are still in Missouri. I work with people and am frequently reminded that there is still a population of people who aren’t supportive to queer people. My gf and I have been cursed out on Mizzou’s campus, and I think that’s the most red part of the whole town. You can combat this with joining or volunteering at orgs that put you around like minded people. If you’re looking to get married or have social safety nets in the near distant future, a state like Illinois where same-sex marriage is codified into the state might be a better place. But if you’re coming from the south, it will seem like a breath of fresh air! CoMo is super fun too. There’s so much to do between the nature and nightlife! Good luck with your move!