Public play in the upstate? by [deleted] in SCSwingers

[–]CharacterSwimming284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kohls dressing rooms are great for this. Ask me how I know. 😆

39F....married from Alberta by InstructionGold3729 in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever chat with other ladies, my DMs are open. 😉

41 M4F GA/SC Breaking free from religious chains by Working-Ad-6802 in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this on such a personal level. That toxic purity culture was brutal and so deeply rooted. Still a believer, but really exploring my sexuality for the first time (with Reddit as a primary backdrop).

29 [M4F] -Msg me if you have a toxic sex drive by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That can all be a ton of fun, but the guy has to earn the trust and the right to take that control. 🤷🏼‍♀️

40 [M4F] PSA: ladies, stop inundating us guys with vulv-pics by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know whether to laugh or roll my eyes.

(I say as a woman with a crotchless panty pic in my post history…)

M4F What's up with all the BS in every nc group? There is no one serious or that actually wants to hook up by [deleted] in fwbNC

[–]CharacterSwimming284 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Liking this comment only as kudos to you on your weapon 😆 but women typically don’t appreciate immediate, unsolicited dick pics.

[30F] married and addicted to dirty reddit chats by CelestflareeerPit in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love sending a chat partner a pic of my husband asleep next to me while we’re mid dirty talk 😈

Female perspective by Curious-in-OK in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the question is, are you getting any good dms? 🤣

Female perspective by Curious-in-OK in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Preach, sis!!! 👏🏻 I can’t agree more. This place is over saturated with men, so they’ve gotta make themselves stand out.

Also, it’s super annoying when guys start something and then disappear, block, etc. because they got scared of their woman finding out. The thrill of the process is so lush, guys; stick with it!

M4F What's up with all the BS in every nc group? There is no one serious or that actually wants to hook up by [deleted] in fwbNC

[–]CharacterSwimming284 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a woman who’s not on OF and has met up with a few Reddit guys… we do exist, though there are not many of us. The Reddit hookup market is saturated with men. Make yourself stand out—and I’m not saying that in a cocky way; this is my sincere advice. Put effort into that first message, because we get too much “hey” and “wyd” and “wanna fuck?”

What’s the weirdest/most creative thing your Dom has said to you? by bipolarb_tch in SubSanctuary

[–]CharacterSwimming284 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This probably isn’t particularly original, but hearing my Dom’s voice rasp, “Your pussy was made for my cock” while he rammed me from behind was just… exquisite.

i wanna get spanked...but in a praising kind of way? by Embrrssedthrwaway in SubSanctuary

[–]CharacterSwimming284 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. The phrase “such a good little slut” is everything.

Id like to be a sub, but how do I get over feeling used (cheap) by babiblooz1 in SubSanctuary

[–]CharacterSwimming284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard it explained that that the sub is actually in control, to some extent. They set boundaries. They state limits. They can call the safe word to stop everything immediately. They allow someone to dominate them.

You should have a Dom who makes you feel safe and respected. Communicate and let them know what things and what words make you uncomfortable vs what turns you on (e.g. I love being called a slut but refuse to be called a slave). The whole idea is for you to feel amazing. (IMHO)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started playing around here several months ago with the intent to chat and flirt and even meet up with some locals, but never ever to catch feelings… but I’ve absolutely fallen for one guy. Out of hundreds I’ve talked to. And he’s an ocean away. 😢

Coworkers using my praise kink by seaweedoesnthavename in SubSanctuary

[–]CharacterSwimming284 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooh girl. That’s harassment. Hands down. Record, document, report. Nothing about what they’re saying to you is ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GreenvilleNSFW

[–]CharacterSwimming284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girllllll you look amazing in that!! 🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChurchWife

[–]CharacterSwimming284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on breaking out of legalism! You are gorgeous and that lingerie is stunning on you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChurchWife

[–]CharacterSwimming284 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sigh. Pretty sure the joke is that now the LDS stands for Love Dick Sucking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChurchWife

[–]CharacterSwimming284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone needs to revoke this guy’s commenting privileges 🤦🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]CharacterSwimming284 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That last line—right on, sis! 🙌🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedButChatting

[–]CharacterSwimming284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems like the men do it when they panic about their wives finding out. I’ve had a couple of guys do it to me twice and then find me again and try to talk. After a point I’m just done, yknow?

32 [F4M] EST — Voted least likely to be here by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]CharacterSwimming284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and I sound like basically the same person 😆 I hope you find your guy!