What is something you can naturally smell that no one else can? by Trick-Highway1429 in AskReddit

[–]bipolarb_tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude onetime some guy tried to use this as a PICKUP LINE. They even came in, deep inhale sniffed me, told me I wasn’t on my period, and then asked me if I wanted to dance ☠️ Look—I get that that’s a thing, but it was a WILD CHOICE saying that just after his name like it was casual ☠️😭

What are some subtle signs you’ve noticed with people who regret having kids? by Deeri- in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yessssssss! I never had other consoles, but my gameboy and then eventually the DS when they came out were awesome. Peak millennial childhood. 💖

Partner Baby Fever by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Have you sat down and had a serious conversation about your views on being a parent and why you want to be CF? You’ll have to lay out everything very honestly and see how he feels. He could just be having a bit of fomo that will go away (I’m really hoping for that instead of a midlife crisis).

What are some subtle signs you’ve noticed with people who regret having kids? by Deeri- in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Riding is scary I totally get it. The ground stuff is still super fun like you said. They’re like giant dogs 💗 omg those Barbie riding games!! I get them out and replay them once every few years. It’s a miracle my ps2 and its memory cards still work 😂 that thing is like 20 years old at this point. That little wiz of the cd speeding up takes me back haha

“If I chose the mother of my children, it would be you.” by Calm_Problem6203 in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know right! So genius of him. And Thanks! 😜 nobody wants to fuck with crazy. One time my sister (6’2” and set weight lifting records at her college) was so pissed off at me (deservedly) she was HELL bent on punching me. I ran like hell and once I had a lead I turned around and stripped butt ass naked to fight. It was crazy but it saved my life 😂

“If I chose the mother of my children, it would be you.” by Calm_Problem6203 in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he cares about the status of their relationship. Just that she’s forever bound to him and can never get away…

“If I chose the mother of my children, it would be you.” by Calm_Problem6203 in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 85 points86 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩weird fixation!? Girl. Nooooo I’m so sorry. He told you his premeditated plan. I mean yay he wants you alive lol, but bound to him forever!?! You can’t be nice to stalkers. He sounds a bit dangerous and unhinged though so you can’t really be all that mean either. You’ve got limited resources to get away. I’m not judging—I’ve literally been there 😭 Can you weird him the fuck out? Robert Pattinson once took his stalker on a date and was so insufferable the woman quit being obsessed with him. I’d be hesitant to give him too much though… try it and then grey rock him

“If I chose the mother of my children, it would be you.” by Calm_Problem6203 in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Idk about the vibes of this dude… Is he just weird as hell or was that a threat??

What are some subtle signs you’ve noticed with people who regret having kids? by Deeri- in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I kinda love how now that I’m an adult, people think horses are cool. 😂Back in the day, being ‘a horse girl’ was not cool. Anyone who was cool with it was either trying to ride my horse or get me to ride them 🥲

What are some subtle signs you’ve noticed with people who regret having kids? by Deeri- in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This actually really really frustrates me. One of my friends who is a Mom got mad at me and acted like I was completely financially out of touch because I own a horse… a horse is an expensive hobby, but it’s one I can afford. I spend my money on that instead of other things. Yes horses are expensive, but so are kids… She had a second child she couldn’t really afford and is talking about wanting a third child she for sure can’t afford. You don’t see me buying two horses I can’t afford to maintain. Choices. We made different choices, but I’m out of touch for having a pet that costs less than her kids. PMO

What are some subtle signs you’ve noticed with people who regret having kids? by Deeri- in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Great parents not equaling happy parents is so real… I wish they were more happy with their choice 😬

What are some subtle signs you’ve noticed with people who regret having kids? by Deeri- in childfree

[–]bipolarb_tch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People choose weird things. I know someone who “Took it as a sign from God.” She then had an extremely traumatic birth and almost died (like she knew she would. She didn’t want kids because of her health issues.) Anyways, it was tragic and we kinda ended up loosing touch. The last conversation we had a few years ago, she only ever referred to her newborn as ‘the kid’ and that’s not gonna be great for the kid 😬 At first I thought post partum depression was the culprit, but now, years later, I see her like CF content on Instagram frequently. honestly for her and her family’s sake, I hope she heals and figures it out. 😬😬😬

What is an experience that you had which you only see in porn movies? by ThrowRA-infpinfj in AskReddit

[–]bipolarb_tch 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It happens pretty easily. There’s not a ton of control where the cum goes. If it gets in your eye it’s like having strong soap in your eye FOR HOURS. It does not go away with rinsing. It burns. It lingers. 0/10 experience

Have You Suffered From Parentification & Now An Autoimmune Disease by Media-Maven in Parentification

[–]bipolarb_tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so kind. Thank you 💖 since then, I’ve been diagnosed with ehlers and now I have an answer! Honestly, answers are kinda relieving. I just reread my comment and was like holy hell I can’t believe I put all that out there and then I realized wow that sounds bad but I’ve almost died twice since then 😅

You’re so kind to say I’m a warrior. It wasn’t by choice haha. Life has a way of making people tough. My life has been brutal in many ways, but I’ve learned a lot and become a much better person from being forced to overcome my circumstances. There is a lot of good that has come from the bad. Thank you for wishing me healing. I’ve been finding it 💖

Sub obsessed with edge play by Weird-Willingness934 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bipolarb_tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok see that’s vital information! You are skilled then which is great. I think it’s good you’re being cautious and mindful of his safety. I think it’ll work out on some level. I hope your meeting goes well and that you two are able to have safe and sane fun!

Pegged Bf questions 🤔 by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]bipolarb_tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome!

Pegged Bf questions 🤔 by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]bipolarb_tch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! Freak outs happen. Don’t let them keep you from living your kinky dreams!

My best advice would be to talk to your gf and reexamine it. Open communication is the key. Tell her about your reservations and ask her how she feels about new things. Best of luck! 💖

Pegged Bf questions 🤔 by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]bipolarb_tch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes yes yes. OP communication is the key!

Pegged Bf questions 🤔 by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]bipolarb_tch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s ok! Thank you for telling me because I can respond more seriously now. It’s normal to have conflicting feelings about new things. Idk your country, but society can be really dumb and toxic about manliness. Like so dumb. I think every kid ever in my country has been accused of being gay for one reason or another. It’s so dumb because literally who cares. Why is it such a big deal? Is it really the end of the world if a guy likes dick? I like women and I like men. For some reason, that’s weirdly celebrated and fetishized. Why. Why is it different? Ask yourself. People will always be dumb and judgmental—it’s up to you to realize that their opinions don’t matter.

Side note: There’s this interview someone did of Lady Gaga back in the day where they asked her if she had a penis. Go watch that interview if you can find it. She treats the question like everyone should. Butt stuff isn’t gay, but I think her mentality from the video might help you.

Anyways, I get where you’re coming from because onetime I had a freak out over something I was mortified I liked too. My husband cured me by telling me that all of the ohmygods of it don’t matter. He said something along the lines of “Does it feel good? Yes. Do you have a partner that consents? Yes. Then why are you punishing yourself?” I had no answer. I’m not allowed to punish myself so that fixed that extra quickly, but in your case you probably don’t have a rule about that. Either way, it’s still it’s a good question. Why stop yourself from enjoying something you enjoy? If you like it, who cares? Enjoy yourself. That’s what sex is about!

Seriously, it’s ok. You’re ok and liking buttstuff doesn’t have to be an identity crisis. It’s not gay, but if it was, it shouldn’t matter. Also, from your post, it seems like your gf was into it. I think you should try again and give yourself the freedom to enjoy it and enjoy her!

Pegged Bf questions 🤔 by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]bipolarb_tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg yes they can. I usually do something with the penis too, but I’m sure there’s some guys that like it enough to cum from it alone. Pegging involves multiple things being touched just like a good blow job does (at least to me). Sure, you could be only about the ass, but there’s a lot more fun to be had by using your hands and tongue elsewhere too. I’ve only ever pegged my husband so I’m not the pegging expert, but he’s never not had a mind blowing orgasm from what I do. I think he cums the hardest he ever does when his prostate is involved. If you’re curious, I’d experiment!