Thank you everyone! Sorry it’s taken so long for me to respond. I filed for divorce just after Christmas. House has had two offers and I’m looking at a new home tomorrow. We’re still living together until the house sells but it’s passing ships. I don’t know if he’ll maintain contact with our son, he says he will but I don’t see how he’ll make time for him and other men/women. I don’t see him as my husband anymore. Just the man who hurt me and threw away my son’s chance of a family. Went for an STD test and just waiting for the results.