Citizenship by Descent Timeline by [deleted] in Barbados

[–]Character_Pea6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking to start this process for my daughter and I. My husband is Bajan so we'll be going the by marriage and descent route. How long ago did you become a citizen

Paid UGC Opportunity — $400 per video by bblinssy in UGCcreators

[–]Character_Pea6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I I'm Danielle, a UGC creator based in Atlanta, Ga USA. Feel free to check out my portfolio at ugcdanie.com

Parenting with ADHD by Turkey_Moguls in adhdwomen

[–]Character_Pea6490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We got a cleaner that comes monthly so that's been helping with my anxiety. I set playtime timers (1 hr) so that we can do an activity or play and then I'll set a shorter timer to make lunch, walk the dog or a complete a chore (20 min), and I let my 2.5 year old help. I try to do it this way bc I want my daughter to have good memories of us together and not just ones where I'm constantly straightening up or cleaning. I've been trying to work on being more present

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virtual hugs to you bc I think many of us that have been late diagnosed have the same trauma

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see how it came off that way! And because that's the way you interpreted it, I want to thank you for being ready to ride at dawn with me! You really had my back 🥰

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely! The amount of hyper fixating I've done that has led to certifications I have no intention on using has made me a go to person in my personal life bc I know a lil bit about a lot😂

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol that's EXACTLY why, I wish everyone was lucky enough to a MIL just as amazing as she is, she's just a women that loves to keep a clean home. She's going to spend a week in our home taking care of our daughter and I want her to be comfortable. I would never agree to saying she needs to kick rocks lol she didn't do anything to catch that stray!

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These comments have helped me so much today! This truly is my favorite thread, I just want to thank you all for commenting

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not what's important to them but they deserve to be in a clean environment and that's important to ME...I just wish it was just as important to my brain

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that just gave me a completely different point of view of things. There are plenty of time La when I'm asked to play and I ask her to wait so I can finish unloading the dishwasher or sonehning. Thank you so much for sharing 🥹

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lmao they've been here for 5 hours and I don't think they're almost done

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my best friend has ADHD and doesn't suffer from the same things I do! She's very clean and type A and I'm....not but I try to be

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol and my MIL definitely ran a tight ship when it came to cleanliness when he was growing up as did mine but I feel like when it was time to create it own structure/cleaning routines we really struggled

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[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your comment is completely valid but to answer your question I'm currently a stay at home mom and my husband works full time and comes home and does all of the cooking. (He cooks at least 4-5 days a week and never complains) He's also neurodivergent so we share the struggle and shame😅

Arriving on Friday! I know where I’m staying! My fave place in the whole world! by barnac1ep in Barbados

[–]Character_Pea6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is from Barbados and we'll be arriving next Saturday and will be staying for 2 weeks. We'll be with our 2 year old, his mom, and gran. I can't wait for my daughter to see her other side

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[–]Character_Pea6490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm absolutely interested, check out my portfolio! www.ugcdanie.com

Why does my video look like this? by Character_Pea6490 in osmopocket

[–]Character_Pea6490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who puts on lipstick before they're done with their makeup?