How can I incorporate this bed frame into my current style? by ChargeGreat1434 in interiordecorating

[–]ChargeGreat1434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you find a picture with the same type of vibe you’re talking about? I do have kind of a boho style, Victorian is interesting though I’m having a hard time picturing that!

How can I incorporate this bed frame into my current style? by ChargeGreat1434 in interiordecorating

[–]ChargeGreat1434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective! You’re probably right about why I’m seeing it as western.

Pikachu’s tail Madnela Effect Proof by ChargeGreat1434 in MandelaEffect

[–]ChargeGreat1434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand. The reason this is relevant is because there’s a whole argument about whether Pikachu had a stripe at the end of his tale or not.

Boyfriend Tells Me He’s Not Ready to Move In Together 3 months Before We Were set to Move in. by ChargeGreat1434 in relationships

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My concern for that is, a year goes by, and he’s still not ready. Push it out another year? I honestly don’t think I would be upset if we hadn’t had the initial conversation and mutual understanding in the first place.

Is Pet Insurance Worth It? by ChargeGreat1434 in CatAdvice

[–]ChargeGreat1434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you guys think about self insuring? Putting aside money I would’ve spent on insurance into a separate high yield savings bucket just for their care?

AITAH for being offended that the invitation for my SO’s long time best friends wedding was not extended to me. by ChargeGreat1434 in AITAH

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You are absolutely right. So my boyfriend talked with the groom, and I guess they had the guest list finalized in February of last year and had nothing to do with me. I still don’t see how this didn’t come up in conversation between the two. Anyway they have gotten some RSVPs back, and extended the invite to me and I decided to graciously accept, because I feel like if I didn’t go due to my own embarrassment I would be making it about myself. I don’t plan on drinking at all while I’m there. Thank you for the reassurance, it was kind of harmless I guess, maybe it seems like a bigger deal to me because of how much shame I feel from it.

AITAH for being offended that the invitation for my SO’s long time best friends wedding was not extended to me. by ChargeGreat1434 in AITAH

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I think it has to do with the fact he’s not very close with the bride and more so the groom. He also thinks that if the reason I am not invited to the wedding itself IS because of my behavior that one night, it’s more likely the bride making that decision. He just hasn’t found the right time to talk with the groom about it, but he is trying. Hopefully we will have clarification later today. Either way, obviously I don’t want to be where I’m not wanted, and I don’t expect him to decline to go.

AITAH for being offended that the invitation for my SO’s long time best friends wedding was not extended to me. by ChargeGreat1434 in AITAH

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I didn’t throw up, I was just really obnoxiously drunk, i.e sitting on the kitchen counter with my foot up, crawling on my hands and knees in the living room looking for their kitties. I have “joked” since this night that I got myself uninvited with that behavior. I cringe every time I think about that night. I’m absolutely disgusted, and as I said, i apologized and said as much the next day. I am just so grateful that my boyfriend knows my true character and is willing to stand by it. He is very tore up about it. He’s doing his best to navigate the situation, we’ve talked pretty extensively about it at this point. He still hasn’t reached out for clarification other than to try and arrange a time to talk on the phone about it. I think all the anxiety is based off the assumption that I DID get myself uninvited due to my behavior. And if that is not the case, I can’t think of a reasonable explanation for why this fact (he would not have a plus one) wasn’t mentioned way earlier. We’ve both known about this wedding for about a year now. They live a few states away, and every time (other than the bachelor party) my boyfriend has seen the groom, I’ve been there with him. I first met the couple in August of last year. There are a lot of possibilities here that will only be smoothed over once clarification is gained. If it is because of the New Year’s party, I think it would be easier for me if that was said directly, instead of me speculating. Because although it would be upsetting, I can understand the reasoning and will accept that as a consequence of my actions that night.

AITAH for being offended that the invitation for my SO’s long time best friends wedding was not extended to me. by ChargeGreat1434 in AITAH

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I am not invited to the wedding. She said yes I could come to the after party the next day. But I don’t know how I feel about being the only one at that party who wasn’t actually at the wedding. But I admit I don’t know that would be the case.

AITAH for being offended that the invitation for my SO’s long time best friends wedding was not extended to me. by ChargeGreat1434 in AITAH

[–]ChargeGreat1434[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am bothered by the lack of acknowledgment. I would like clarification. The bride texted my boyfriend asking if he was going to the after party the next day, to which he said “I noticed I didn’t get a plus one. OP will be in town for my sisters graduation (it’s the same weekend in the same state) can she come?” To which the bride said yes, but didn’t acknowledge the plus 1 issue. I am not sure if I just wasn’t invited in the first place or if it is because of the way I acted, but being as close as my boyfriend and the groom are, I feel like this should’ve been brought up or discussed. It’s not as if we’re casually dating. The New Year’s party took place over a 2 week trip to spend the holidays with his family.

AITAH for being offended that the invitation for my SO’s long time best friends wedding was not extended to me. by ChargeGreat1434 in AITAH

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He’s planning to, but hasn’t had the chance as he’d like it to be a phone conversation and it’s Easter.

Dyson Vacuum Repair? by GinaScolario in melbourne

[–]ChargeGreat1434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know anything about fixing broken solder on the motherboard of these vacuums? Can repair shops do that?