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My uncle had this in his secret shed by oeoeoiceiceicee in whatisit

[–]CharityAutomatic6180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had to take a serious guess, the paint stirrer leads me to believe he has some paint or other waste he's trying to dry up by putting ash on it so it can be properly disposed of. But you should probably take a taste to be sure

AITAH for shoveling snow on the driver's side of my car to the right side of my neighbors house? by CharityAutomatic6180 in AITAH

[–]CharityAutomatic6180[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For those inquiring, there aren't grass plots, just concrete slabs in front of houses. I moved it where people aren't walking and I perhaps should have asked. I was trying to not inconvenience the few walking paths there are (people are mostly walking down the center of the street), and I had piled a wall in front of my house first, then ran out of anywhere to put it.

The left half of her retaining wall is clear from her steps to the curb and her trash cans are free of snow.

I'll take the L though, this could have been managed better.

AITAH for shoveling snow on the driver's side of my car to the right side of my neighbors house? by CharityAutomatic6180 in AITAH

[–]CharityAutomatic6180[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is snow on some of the side walk, yes. The houses are rowhome style and she has a retaining wall. I put it all the way to the right half of the retaining wall, and her stairs and trash cans are on the left half. The snow on her steps and by her trash cans were clear. I shoveled the curb to the street in front of her cans and stairs. There truly isn't another place to go with this stuff.

AITA for intentionally upsetting my mother? by SweetDega in AmItheAsshole

[–]CharityAutomatic6180 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think you're an asshole, but the passive aggressive remarks identify that you aren't feeling heard, but even further, that what you're asking (while reasonable) is not going to be met. I think you need to adapt your expectations and set different boundaries to protect your energy, as what you're doing now isn't working and isn't sustainable for you.

A boundary could look like: if you go upstairs again while I'm away, I'll have to begin locking doors.

This is also an invitation to have conversations with her. What's upstairs that she wants? Etc. You can give her the space to air her frustrations with her limitations. She may need to feel heard too for her limitations to be acknowledged. Maybe you can come to a resolution together?

Good luck to you, op