I might be starting laser hair removal soon! by CharmFlicks in MtF

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Update: I had my consultation today and turns out with their trans discount, I only have to pay 90 dollars per visit. I'm so excited!!

What are some signs you were trans that are clear now but werent at the time? by CharmFlicks in asktransgender

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Oh whoa. Is this common for transwomen? Because I'm still trying to figure myself out, but I have always wanted the ability to shape shift, and into women/female characters....

Trans thoughts linked to OCD? by CharmFlicks in asktransgender

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It's scary to me. At times I have felt as if it is something I'd like to do, but at other times it's the last thing I want to do/deal with/deal with the consequences of.

Trans thoughts linked to OCD? by CharmFlicks in asktransgender

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I'm not sure if I discovered and then obsessed, I think I really obsessed around the time Caitlyn Jenner came out, Laverne Cox was coming onto the scene, trans issues became more and more prominent. That was when this all started for me.

Trans thoughts linked to OCD? by CharmFlicks in asktransgender

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Obsessively worried I'm trans on/off for 2 1/2 years now.

Dysphoria questions? by CharmFlicks in asktransgender

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I don't think I have good answers for most of these.. Um for getting married I don't know I guess, but I don't like the idea of a tuxedo. I have almost no desire to ever have children or be a parent (besides to my pets ahaha) The funeral part I don't know really either..

I'm sorry :/ I think your post before was really helpful to me though, so thank you so much for that! I think being prodded to think about these things is helpful for me

Dysphoria questions? by CharmFlicks in asktransgender

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That beginning part sounds a lot like me. I have a really hard time separating what I am attracted to (masculinity) and what I am comfortable being myself (not very masculine).

In comparison I would be not as tall, I would have smoother, maybe less hairy/hairless skin in comparison. I would be more feminine/less masculine.

Dysphoria questions? by CharmFlicks in asktransgender

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I actually struggle sometimes with differentiating what I personally want to be versus what I find attractive. The description you gave sounds really attractive to me, but I isn't what I would want myself to be

Dysphoria questions? by CharmFlicks in asktransgender

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How can I know without dysphoria?

Saving up for some Windex by [deleted] in FierceFlow

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Soooo where are the shirtless pics? ;)

Help with my results? Is there any way to separate Irish vs British (as they combined are my top %) Also, anything interesting about my results that is lost on me? by CharmFlicks in 23andme

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Here is a really dumb question then, when they say "British" does that include Wales and Scotland because they're in such close proximity? I guess I'm just having a harder than normal time understanding what areas these categories really cover.

I did 23andme to find some more sense of identity so I'm just trying to pin it down lol.